A Lot on Your Plate Podcast
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Thursday 02 July 2026 16:42:37 GMT
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Bexboo1990 :
am getting married next year, and i agree if your invite to the hen then ur you invite to the whole day. I would pissed if that happened to me.
2026-07-03 07:41:39
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helencole82 :
Hen do’s have just got utterly out of control in my opinion. I would hate to think that my friends are spending more than they can afford. Keep it low key and stop losing sight of what really matters. Friendships!
2026-07-06 15:10:47
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HeatherTheCat :
This same thing happened to my other half he went to a stag do down the country probs cost him 300/400 for the whole weekend and he didn’t even get invited to the wedding at all !
2026-07-03 08:55:50
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Kelly Moore42 :
Dumped my friend for this exact reason 😂 Friends since 13, £700 down for a weekend in York and I got an evening invite! See ya later honey!
2026-07-14 07:24:33
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Betty :
I went to a hen do meal & drinks, wasn't invited to any of the wedding 🤣
2026-07-05 14:19:01
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carapirie :
Oooo I feel equipped to talk about this subject. We are having a small intimate ceremony and then a big reception party. When I made a GC for my away hen do the first thing I said in the message was that we are having a small wedding so not everyone will be invited all day, I personally thought it was so important to let everyone know that before they spent any money or effort coming away! Side note I since changed my mind and we now have 32 day guests so that everyone on the hen do can be there all day because I felt it crazy to ask them to spend all that money and then not even come to the wedding✨ *also to note that o paid entirely for myself on the hen do and didn’t ask or expect anyone to chip in for me!
2026-07-03 10:56:26
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Marian :
My partner got invited to the stag do but I can’t remember him not getting an invite to the wedding or reception!!!
2026-07-30 17:19:45
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rhiannonmarie.x :
Who sends their invites out after the hen do…?
2026-07-28 08:27:55
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gemmahardie362 :
Iv got people coming to my hen who aren’t coming to the wedding, but its only an evening! Im having a small wedding and cant invite everyone so some people are coming to the hen but i did tell them they wouldnt be coming to the wedding because our numbers are small
2026-07-30 08:21:16
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tiffany🩷 :
i have known this happen i dont understand if your being asked on the stag or hen then why wouldnt you go to the whole day cause you must be in there close circle ?? i would be upset if i wasent invited all day just my opinion not hate please 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
2026-07-02 18:27:29
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Lucy Woodward :
I’ve got this dilemma, we are having an abroad wedding of 50 people, so we have only incurred closest couples (4 couples) I’d love to do a hen do with all the girls in the girlfriend group (about 10), but I feel like it seems awkward inviting them to hen do but not wedding…. Thoughts
2026-07-29 18:36:38
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Becky 🖤✨ :
My husband got invited to his friends two stag dos, then wasn’t even invited to the wedding in the end as there was only one space left so they asked their single friend instead 😂 he couldn’t care less but I was fuming for him 😬
2026-07-04 06:45:34
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Emily Doherty :
I was invited to the full day of the wedding but not the hen do … make that make sense
2026-07-06 15:46:29
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Aimee :
Been to loads of hen dos and only went to the night do, I don’t mind 🤣😅 think weddings are so expensive now a lot of couples only invite people all day that both of them know together.
2026-07-14 16:33:11
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lifeofloisxo :
Did you enjoy your time at the hen do though? You’re paying for yourself. If you don’t want to go/pay, then don’t
2026-07-07 07:17:47
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Jill T :
Yes we have to show up for the people that we love but the people that we love need to have a little bit of consideration for the people that they love and realise that there’s no need for the extravagance and temper their expectations of people.
2026-07-04 12:07:33
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deejaypd :
how did she manage to only spend 400 on the hen?
2026-07-06 11:01:19
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bec98217 :
You have to tell people in advance if they are day or night guests. It’s only fair.
2026-07-03 11:18:40
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Gemma Michelle Hutton :
before even inviting people to my hen I spoke to certain people individually and said our wedding is only 20 people, so there is a chance they won't be invited to the wedding, that being the case I would not take any offensive of they decline the hen do invite, every single person has said they want to attend the hen, it's all about communication! (also I am paying a large chunk of the hen to bring the cost down for others) 💕
2026-07-29 16:43:34
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A :
I just view them as do I like them enough to go on holiday with them,,,,,
2026-07-07 08:27:18
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JJ ✨💁🏼♀️ :
Away hens for all day guests. Home hen/night for reception guests. 100% would be upset if I got invited away and then wasn’t invited all day unless it was a tiny wedding x
2026-07-07 11:27:43
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Kerri Young :
I got asked by the bride to organise her works hen do, which I did, even spent my own money on little extras, didn’t get a proper thank you, or even an invite to the reception 😅
2026-07-09 20:19:31
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GreenOlive230 :
I had about 20 girls on my hen do but they didn't all go to my wedding as I had a tiny wedding. The hen was camping at a pub and my friends maybe paid £80 for the whole weekend with all their food and drinks. I did then have a big party the weekend after my wedding where all of my friends and family were invited. I do think it depends on the wedding size. We only had about 50 people at the actual wedding.
2026-07-04 08:36:46
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Thommo :
sounds like she won got to do all the good stuff without actually having to witness the boring parts
2026-07-05 09:29:15
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Joshua Mugridge :
That’s the dream
2026-07-04 02:53:54
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