@nicolemichelleofficial: It all comes down to the way marriage centers men. #inlaws #decentering

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princessv124
Princess V💕 :
My husband deals w his family and I deal w mine 🤷🏽‍♀️
2026-07-14 14:40:26
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bbbbrae
bbbbrae :
The reason is the mom gets jealous they’re not the #1 woman in their son’s life anymore. All the problems start with jealousy and then they spiral into other bs.
2026-07-14 15:35:58
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honeymoonphase_
honeymoonphase_ :
I lucked out. My Husband is an only child with divorced parents and they live in a different state. I don’t have to deal with any type of in laws, ever. 💓 it’s blissful.
2026-07-14 15:41:44
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kenzy_lane
Kenzy✨🌸💖🍓 :
It cause his mom is jealous that he’s given me everything no man ever gave her and he treats me like she’s never been treated. She preaches that she wanted him to be a good man and a good husband, but when he is, she gets mad at me😂
2026-08-22 00:45:53
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rosie.ee2
user1001374625569 :
Eh I disagree. I think it has more to do with the dynamic between mothers and sons. I think men are kind of forced to grow up and let go of their existing relationship with their parents more than women are and I think t hi d can create a mindset from the MIL that “he doesn’t talk to me anymore now that he’s married” when in reality it is a perfectly normal shift to have in a relationship between an adult son and his mother. I think moms have a hard time letting go! 🥺
2026-07-14 16:46:42
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heymace
🌈 :
Don’t worry, guys. As a lesbian, I STILL have in law issues with her parents.
2026-07-15 12:02:50
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boymommy2627
Boymommy2627 :
When my boomer mother complains about my Gen Z sons partners, I gently try to explain to her that they are not my children. I did not raise them. I will not scold them. Or correct them. They are equals to me. Not insubordinate. My boomer parents have a hard time understanding that children grow up and they’re just adults with less experience. They need to be treated as such.
2026-07-14 11:56:23
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lonelystar2147
lonelystar2147 :
my frontal lope developed again
2026-07-14 15:13:37
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mirandeerrr
mirandeerrr :
I think it’s also the fact that men operate differently than women. Women are competitive in nature for men — being ‘chosen’ is still prevalent for MIL with their sons (odd but true). FIL on the other hand truly just want respect from his SIL, and understand that his fatherly duty to her (provision and protection) now rests in the hands of his daughter’s husband
2026-07-14 14:04:35
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nlh529
NLH :
He doesn’t have issues with my parents because they are dead. 😆
2026-07-15 19:04:29
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kris10robs
Kristen Robinson🤍 :
My MIL said I don’t treat them like family simply bc I don’t take my daughter to their house… I’m not their daughter. Their son can do that. I don’t wanna go hang with them on my off days😭😂
2026-08-25 19:35:43
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alishatomac
alishatomac :
This is spot on for my marriage. His mom constantly passive aggressively tells him all these problems over and over again. She wants him to fix. We had a remembrance party on the day he told her not to plan anything. Then she got mad when he couldn’t stay and said “i need you there for support, you are my rock” she’s re-married. She has a husband.
2026-07-14 17:28:55
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lipstickaddict1026
Vitamin E Gen ❌ :
My life!
2026-07-06 16:02:47
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emilie_paiva
ємιℓιє 🌊✨📚🔮 :
Spot on! My mother loves my spouse. My mother in law thinks I’m the problem vs acknowledging the actual problems he’s told her he has
2026-07-14 17:46:08
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fortheloveofjill
Jill :
I’m so lucky that my MIL likes me and treats me with respect because yeah some of them can be brutal 😭
2026-07-14 22:49:33
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hudson8955
EMB18 :
Nah. My MIL is just a bitch because she favors two of her four kids. She openly ignores my husband and his older sibling. It’s ridiculous.
2026-07-14 16:49:25
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pranet53
P :
They see you as a servant
2026-07-14 19:38:11
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christine13854
Christine JAMES :
My lovley ex mother in law ,when I told her ,her son had in temper Headbutt me in the face, she laughed
2026-07-14 17:15:46
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laurakatherine88
Laura Katherine :
My husband and I decided that I would keep my last name and his dad freaked and refused to come to the wedding 🥰
2026-07-14 18:03:56
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kat_v_s
kat_v_s :
Man I really lucked out with my MIL. She’s from Puerto Rico and we’re going to a BTS concert together 🤪
2026-07-15 13:23:35
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realbre00
realbre :
The way I had lecture my mom on being
2026-07-14 15:27:55
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userxoxox93
user3333 :
how can we make the husband learn?? Cold shoulder? treat him as a friend?
2026-07-14 15:38:11
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imsorandom789
Random Person :
they feel like you took him away
2026-07-06 21:20:52
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katiegrace1027
Kaitlyn :
I have issues with my inlaws because they see my husband as less competent and they don't trust his decisions, so why would they value his choice of spouse?
2026-07-02 18:05:47
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