@growthmindsetparenting: The half step? That’s the feedback loop. The concrete behavioral response to succes or failure. We start with setup- set realistic expectations in a time specific window. We scaffold- we give them clear structure to facilitate success. We step back- yep. Do lessssss. Maybe some monitoring but the self monitoring is the goal. And we practice on repeat. It’s not magic. It’s repetition and expectations. #parentingtips #MiddleSchool #growthmindset #teenager #momlife

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alli.your.book.bestie
✨Alli✨ Your book bestie 📚🪩🍒 :
No one talks about how hard to teach executive function when you’re a parent who never learned executive function and you’re learning it together with your children.
2026-07-03 13:56:35
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tabascouppercut
TabascoUppercut :
Brother we aren’t yelling because we think it will work. We are yelling because we also have executive dysfunction.
2026-07-03 19:34:33
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pommiewranga
pommiewranga :
Consistency, consistency, consistency 😳
2026-07-04 03:18:37
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lilispice1289
LiliSpice1289 :
Being a good parent is EXHAUSTING 😭
2026-07-03 20:55:17
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probablyyrachel
probablyyrachel :
how do I teach this to my 36 year old husband
2026-07-03 03:06:12
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merrittolson0
Merritt | Luxury Hotel Expert :
I’ve found it’s helpful to have a laminated picture of what their room and bathroom look like when they’re clean to reference bc again, executive function. It really helps!!
2026-07-02 22:17:55
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geena8549
Geena :
The problem is that a lot of us parents are dealing with executive dysfunction as well
2026-07-03 14:20:38
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genxifer_1978
GenXifer_1978 :
I gave up the arguing & reminding, I have a word doc checklist template & print him a list every day, break down into steps, etc - it goes on his clipboard & he carries his clipboard, does his list with zero arguments (he’s 8)
2026-07-03 13:54:48
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momlifemars
Marcia :
okay but how do I teach executive function skills when I myself don't have executive functions skills feel like we're in a sinking ship
2026-07-02 22:56:18
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bjoman2000
bjoman :
NGL I think I only executively functioned at like 25-28 years old. Fully developed frontal lobe or whatever, but it only did come with age for me
2026-07-04 03:28:00
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annamal610
annamal610 :
lol trying to reparent myself
2026-07-03 11:32:17
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jwilderauthor
J. Wilder :
I changed my morning routine from infuriating to cheerful. Giving my son the best start of the day. He has ADHD and time blindness. Identifying what was slowing him down was step one. Now I wake him up as sing-song happy as possible. Set a visual timer so he can see how much time he has to shower and get downstairs. Another timer downstairs that he uses to know how much time he has to get his breakfast and lunch ready. Toothbrush in main floor bath. No phones until everything is done. He hurries to get ready, so that he can have a few extra minutes on his phone before we leave. I sometimes prompt him: how much time left doesn’t your countdown say? Zero yelling. Works like a charm.
2026-07-02 22:06:16
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dapenguin911
. PinkSun🧸 :
My parents had to tell me ONE TIME. 😔 wtf is going in?
2026-07-03 23:13:17
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fae.days
Fae ✨🔮🌛 :
Will this still work even if the kids go back and forth between parents and the other parent js lax and has no structure at all
2026-07-02 22:12:52
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ravenblossom
Raven Blossom :
That’s a lot of words for Elmo.
2026-07-03 23:51:27
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anniecat0.0
Catherine315 :
How do I start this with a 4 year old level?
2026-07-04 03:31:11
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daustyna
Danisa :
My kids 5 & 8 go to sleep at 7:15pm, wake up on their own and get ready. I support by having their clothes washed, organized and their hygiene products ready for them. No chaotic morning, everyone is happy.
2026-07-04 03:33:03
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humblehoney318
JustBeingDrēe🐝 :
I was just telling my friend she has to teach her husband these things. I know I am going to start doing these things with my children. it's so hard because I wasn't raised with a schedule/structure. I'm going to do this. Thank you
2026-07-04 03:28:41
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boytjie.maintenance
boytjie.maintenance :
Shucks. I’m so tired of being 3 kids pre-frontal cortex 🤣
2026-07-03 09:06:59
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bippysue2yoo
@bippysue2yoo :
I messed up on this with my kids. 😳
2026-07-02 20:02:47
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nopester7500
Nopester7500 :
Sounds great in a vacuum. But if they are 8 minutes late in the morning or don’t wake up until 7:30….guess who’s fucked getting to work 👌
2026-07-04 01:36:15
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mohtarrmah
B🐝 :
Expectations, scaffolding, blank space, consequences. Got it
2026-07-03 22:46:44
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ubiquitousfont
Helvetica Bold :
How do I do this for a 45 year old man?
2026-07-02 22:47:51
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amandabell83
❣️Mandy❣️🇳🇿 Down Under 🇳🇿 :
my issue currently is my 6 year old twins want more support than they need. so for instance they want me to put their shoes on for them even though they’re capable. so i’m struggling there feeling like i’ve given too much support and how to step back
2026-07-03 00:36:09
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unabashed__ash
Ash Sky :
Can you make a video about how to do this but in a way that is age appropriate for a 5 or 6 year old?
2026-07-02 18:39:27
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