Bonus one - how he speaks about his friends girlfriends when they aren’t around
2026-07-03 02:14:43
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iscahstar :
another important one: see how he reacts when you say no to something or “disappoint” him. for instance, how does he react when you have to cancel a date or when you set a boundary. his reaction to that is very telling.
2026-07-03 14:18:33
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adam_2703 :
it's too complicated just leave me alone
2026-07-05 05:52:38
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farmerbish1 :
I’m a man and I agree with her
2026-07-02 23:33:54
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Aaron peter :
Love the way you articulate yourself. Great video
2026-07-02 22:22:32
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Raniah :
Ladies when you speak to a man speak to him about politics and you’ll find your answers there
2026-07-28 14:24:47
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dnnito⁷ :
And yes it is that deep
2026-07-22 14:57:31
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Mariah 🧚🏾♀️ :
21? Girl you is smart!
2026-07-03 10:55:47
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Sharnee Mirae Creative :
And how he self regulates when things don’t go his way. How he shows up through difficulties and being uncomfortable shows a lot about a person too. How do they take feedback - see it instantly as criticism and be reactive/defensive or sit with it to understand and hear you?
2026-07-06 00:01:49
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ben :
actually really needed this because i was interested in this guy i met recently (until i realised he wasn't ready for anything serious) but then watched this and realised that if i did this analysis of him then he literally wouldn't pass a single one of these tests
2026-07-03 02:31:37
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vi :
I also like paying extra attention to how he reacts during and after any disagreements or arguments. Very eye opening to what kind of person you’re dealing with
2026-07-04 12:55:58
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beatrizsmmoraes :
21??? Girl you're SO wise
2026-07-06 13:56:27
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Georgia🦦 :
my single ahh watching the entire video
2026-07-28 11:55:25
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these are actually so valid
2026-07-03 10:45:56
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alex :
You are so intelligent
2026-07-03 09:47:38
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Alibubz :
Be careful with the hiking one, a lot of men actually abandon women in the middle of nowhere, it’s a whole thing.
2026-07-28 16:34:29
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Flora 𝒷𝓎 𝐹𝒶𝓎𝑒 | Bristol :
Me right now
2026-07-07 04:13:35
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AshleyR28 :
We went snowboarding with a friend and her boyfriend she was dating and he never waited for her so we could move as a group. He never bothered to look for her. My husband just naturally waited for both myself and my friend without ever being asked. He would make sure we were ok before going on. I told her I didn't like how he wasn't concerned about her and just would take off to do his own thing although he was the new person to the group and he was with her.
2026-07-03 18:57:18
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petal585 :
You’re a very sensible woman
2026-07-04 19:12:24
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Lotshie :
Take the friend group and interactions VERY seriously!!! I didn’t and that cost me a lot of peace
2026-07-05 06:05:58
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🩶 :
for a 21yo young woman, this is incredibly mature and has alot of self respect/self-love. I'm so proud of you.
2026-07-06 15:30:20
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