Stanley Chuks :
It appears that so many people have completely misunderstood the true heart behind Geh Geh’s message. Let me say this clearly: he was never, at any point, against the beautiful institution of marriage itself. What he has always stood for, and what he keeps emphasizing, is that marriage should be built as an equal, loving partnership — never as a heavy load that rests entirely and unfairly upon only one person’s shoulders.
Over time, he has wisely encouraged men to prayerfully choose wives who have the vision, strength, and willingness to stand beside them and build a glorious future together. In the same spirit, he urges women to work diligently, develop their own capabilities, remain independent in spirit and purpose, and never place their entire survival or worth solely on a man’s ability to provide. Please do not misread this: this does not mean a husband should shy away from his sacred duty to provide, protect, and care for his family with all his strength! It simply means that both partners should contribute — whether through effort, resources, wisdom, support, or service — in ways that lift each other higher and make their home unbreakable.
We all know that countless marriages face great difficulties for many different reasons — and heavy financial pressure is one of the hardest storms to weather alone. But when both husband and wife carry equal responsibility, offer unwavering support, and stay fully committed to growing hand in hand, they become far more resilient and capable of facing every challenge life brings as one strong team.
That is exactly why the news of his own marriage does not contradict anything he has said before — it actually proves his point perfectly! He has simply found that special woman who truly understands, respects, and shares these very same values he has always taught. He has never condemned marriage; he is fighting for better, fairer, healthier unions — unions where both men and women are honored, both thrive, and both win together.
So let us stop twisting his words and start learning from them. Build your capacity, prepare your heart, support your partner, and remember: your own effort matters greatly too. Go work, gr
2026-07-28 20:33:00