@louishaaa_: I wish people understood that, at a certain age you’re no longer a product of how you were raised. It’s a choice to live the way you do.  #heal #hopecore

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pplarecrazy
BuatS LehcaR :
Ignore all the pity comments. You have to learn to accept responsibility for your actions regardless of trauma
2026-07-03 16:22:28
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devenn_gooey11
De♡enn :
if you read this as an attack on who you are then you clearly have much more healing to do. because amen girl say it louder for the people in the back 🙌
2026-07-03 15:24:07
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user7651078338109
user7651078338109 :
Absolutely correct!
2026-07-03 22:36:05
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vampiricsavagery
G :
people are a book full of excuses too
2026-07-03 17:35:28
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ryuug678
RubertTardington :
What a privileged world view ✨
2026-07-03 19:39:24
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follow.christ19
bxbÿ_kätë19 :
I tell people this ALL THE TIME. BREAK THE CYCLE. you do not have to be like how you were raised. Make the change.
2026-07-03 13:41:16
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glen2479
Glen :
like saying a plant isn't a product of the soil it's grown in. you will always be a product of your childhood
2026-07-03 09:56:15
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alienshowbiz
alienshowbiz :
Soooo, why you are not Elon Musk? You dont want to live that way? or are there more variables including how you were raised? Some are mental, unidentified traumas, programs that are not obvious, social capital since kid, security in youself since kid, etc. Many more variables.
2026-07-03 07:08:05
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souljustice
Ashe Wednesday :
You’re always a product of your lived experiences. There’s no avoiding that. Your ego might be telling you you’ve let go, but this entire mentality is a a product of how you were raised.
2026-07-03 13:40:13
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sarcastic3enthusiasm
Reign Beau Dragon :
i want help. who do i ask? thereapy? no. meds? no. nothing actually works and i can't keep my mind out of panic mode.
2026-07-03 15:26:22
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xavierross45
Xavier :
This is literally a fact of life and why many people choose to start therapy when they finally have the option. Yes, trauma is a lifelong battle you need to fight, but it’s still a choice you have to make to do better
2026-07-03 16:36:00
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asphesterosfelley
Asphesteros Felleye :
I think it was George Orwell who said “after 40, you’re responsible for your face” thought being you’re young you don’t have wrinkles your face is the product of the circumstances of your birth, you get older what you do, how much you smile at the world, how much you frown at people, the kind of person you are is your choice and gets etched in your furrowed brow or shows in your laugh lines. I think about that a lot. It’s same for your waist, your posture, and to a big degree the numbers of bottles of pills in your medicine cabinet and money in your bank account. .
2026-07-03 15:55:40
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user7073170821797
user7073170821797 :
So true
2026-07-03 22:31:29
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mercer.86
ThatJonGuy :
your almost there kid when you get to the point you stop caring what everyone else thinks you'll finally get it
2026-07-02 22:33:10
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user8085261477774
user8085261477774 :
Well said. 👍👍👍
2026-07-03 22:39:19
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dianemay585
dianemay585 :
when u leave your parents house u are now who YOU choose to be!! be better than they were even if they were the best parents on earth.🥰
2026-07-03 22:32:30
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krispsandwich
Krista :
Fundamentally not true.
2026-07-02 19:13:40
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justsabrynaa
Just Sabryna :
It’s not up to you to decide someone’s healing journey and how long it takes.
2026-07-03 21:53:23
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embraceoblivion
embraceOblivion :
Fr. At certain point you can’t keep blaming everything on your parents.
2026-07-03 08:07:39
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tm2873777777
tim :
as a 59 year old..yes and no. patterns are deep and ingrained and things remain unconscious......
2026-07-03 11:55:40
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kaitlynn.lea
k.lea :
Yeah yet no one talks about the amount of effort it takes to unlearn bad habits that you were raised with and that’s once you find out it’s not the norm. If you’ve also been sheltered, that just adds onto it.
2026-07-03 22:33:17
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the.jazziest.hands
NeeNee :
Feel like your video is being purposely misunderstood by some of these commenters.
2026-07-03 22:06:31
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sheilabhela
Sheila :
It's weird how other people who have never lived my life think they have a decision in how I live 😄
2026-07-03 14:24:43
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