"people should just communicate their feelings and what they want more... no, not like that!!"
2026-07-03 08:00:29
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𝒢𝒾𝓈ℯ𝓁𝒾 🧿 :
He made his intent clear prior to meeting up with her. I don’t see what’s wrong with that
2026-07-03 17:39:07
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.ninjakitty :
i was with him till “what would be the point of me coming over”
2026-07-05 01:20:26
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TGA :
I dunno if y'all have heard the voice note 😬
2026-07-03 04:37:05
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madeleine :
just bc someone communicates openly doesnt mean they are automatically being respectful
2026-07-06 18:23:05
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gymfan :
Openness is good. But the message sounded quite disrespectful.
2026-07-03 08:48:29
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moonbeamlust :
He could’ve been honest without being disrespectful
2026-07-10 23:21:02
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Rach :
I struggle with social cues and it is SO HOT when a person can just say what they are wanting or feeling so we can be on the same page
2026-07-03 00:39:56
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Merks :
clear communication AND it was a voice memo to confirm tone and overall vibe. im sorry but like this unironically peak communication. He covered every base to minimise confusion🤷♂️
2026-07-03 09:50:07
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Chaos Miner65 🇬🇧 :
all he's doing is setting expectations for the date before it happens which is pretty smart cos she can set the tone and vibe of the date well ahead of time
2026-07-03 07:12:46
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Hannah :
just listened to it and yeah the one comment in the middle saying like "what's the point if we don't" is a little weird but overall total green flag love the clear communication and setting of expectations
2026-07-03 10:59:40
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Kendall :
As someone whose been in a situation like this- I would have LOVED a text or a voice memo clarifying intent.
2026-07-02 22:13:02
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Rose🇬🇧🏳️🌈 :
And it being a voice memo means tone is displayed. Written words can be misinterpreted. Very green flag
2026-07-03 07:45:11
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Disturbed Gremlin :
Idk I just listened to it, I appreciate his openness and honesty but damn. I think I’d be like… you are reducing me and my presence to just that? Like there are many reasons to want to see you again BEFORE we get to that point… wdym
2026-07-07 17:59:26
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willbattle49 :
his delivery was meh, but the fact he communicated this is good
2026-07-08 03:35:08
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allaboutkianna :
On dating apps I get a lot of first messages like this and although I might not like their tone or how they say it, I do appreciate them being upfront, and I take my leave
2026-07-09 13:19:33
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Babettesfeast :
From the message I heard it seemed like she had already expressed she would not want that?
2026-07-03 12:03:42
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🥔🌬Vak.Vyasi➰️🪷 :
agreed. clear communication about expectation is ✨✨✨✨
2026-07-03 03:56:49
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Tiff :
I’m not team him because I still feel like he likely uses women (totally an assumption on my end tho) but I do agree, that he did the right thing. He was completely up front about his intentions/wants and also respected if that wasn’t for her and was willing to end the talking stage based on that. Not pressuring her or anything. Just honest.
2026-07-04 22:37:24
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🧸 :
My boyfriend said something similar and I said I would prefer waiting and he just respected that. It’s that simple
2026-07-04 17:30:15
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wearealljustwingingit :
thats a respectful way to communicate what you want I think this is ideal
2026-07-03 00:21:08
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sarahkextra :
It was after ONE date
2026-07-08 03:22:29
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blackwitch_95 :
oh no that message was awful, he was so disrespectful.
2026-07-05 19:07:47
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Victoria :
girl i just know you didnt listen to the whole thing
2026-07-04 12:48:22
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Mushroom Bouquet :
this!
And also:
Can we please normalize embracing the concept of compatibility and acknowledge that just because you wouldn't like something, doesn't mean someone else would appreciate it?
Some folks feel its a red flag. okay? I would absolutely appreciate this communication. Its about compatibility.
2026-07-09 15:37:45
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