@drbeckyatgoodinside: A great report card and you're still spiraling? That reaction is data, not weakness. It's worth asking: is this about my kid's effort curve, or my own story about what I had to do on my own? Two things can be true: you can want everything for your kid and still need to separate your stuff from theirs. My conversation with Myleik Teele on the Good Inside Podcast is out now. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.