Pede :
We are incredibly similar. We are both really selective with who we spend our time with. Both are super picky eaters, like the same tv shows, don’t party, are night owls, love biology, are perfectionists, and both want to study medicine. She has stared at me almost every day for like seven months now. She has asked me questions I know she knows the answer to. She has seemed interested and given so many signs. Every time something biology-related was mentioned, in any class, she would instantly look at me. In gym class, we ended up standing there staring at each other through the net. She has snapped me more and more, and I know she wouldn’t give this attention to anyone else than people that matter to her. We graduated now and at the party she sat there crying while staring at me across the room. She’s in Spain now and I asked when she comes home (she comes home the 18th). I asked her out today, «A bit random, but would you be up to meeting up sometime?». She ended up saying, «It would have been really nice, but I am quite busy at the moment». Could it be she is genuinely busy? Yes, maybe. But I take it as her soft rejecting me. Don’t know why, but it sucks a lot. However, even with how many mixed signals and time I have spent on her, it’s only my problem to deal with, not hers. I wish her well either way.
2026-07-13 00:50:00