My youngest sister has a kid. When she had her baby shower I bought $700 worth of items from her wishlist because no one else got anything except for 2-3 items. Barely got a thank you. Now my nephew is about to turn 1 and I have a big box of gifts. She only uses high end luxury diapers for him. The store I went to only had a box of 54 diapers in stock. My mother and my sister both literally said “oh…that’s it??” Like…?? Tf? And I’m struggling with infertility and they make me feel so alone. So glad I live 5 hrs away, even though I visit once a month and they never come to see me btw, but they make me feel like I never do enough.
2026-07-03 03:34:21
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Emily :
I'm the eldest and I feel like I carry all my family's dreams besides mine and if I priorities mine I'm selfish it's so hard to live like that
2026-07-05 01:56:48
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andrea :
Whenever i helped a family out, no one ever thought I needed a praise or a thank you because I always “have more”.
2026-07-05 05:53:27
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Lê Thanh Táo :
Got called selfish for not fixing my sister's problems whenever my parents ask me to 🤷🏻♀️
2026-07-05 05:23:31
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abby.t23 :
this is why at 30 I’m now the deadbeat eldest daughter and I love it!
2026-07-04 23:08:59
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cate :
this is hilarious as the eldest daughter who’s mom needs a kidney and is like this
2026-07-15 16:04:21
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#bisha :
Since childhood, I have been sharing sweets with my mother, making sure she gets food when we are at home and she is at work, I always tell her not to limit herself and to buy something for herself first. but I still hear that she won't get even a glass of water from me in her old age, and my brother, who never shares with anyone and only cooks for himself, will take care of her. Not to mention that I always take into account our financial situation and rarely ask for anything, while my brother doesn't hesitate to spend money on the bus for all sorts of unnecessary little things.
2026-07-15 22:03:18
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𝓜𝓪𝓻𝔂𝓳𝓪𝓷𝓮 ᥫ᭡. :
I swear if there’s another life and they make me the first child again I will be so so mad
2026-07-05 18:28:07
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Sadie🎸🍋 :
only daughter!
2026-07-15 18:58:24
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𝟶𝟿𝟻𝟷𝟺𝟻𝟽𝟻𝟺𝟹𝟷 𝙼𝚁𝙹 :
nothing will ever be enough. i stopped college as a consistent dean's lister to take care of you in the hospital and still be reminded everyday that my younger cousins are graduating ahead of me 🫠
2026-07-15 02:59:34
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Evy :
When i told my mom i was moving out at 28 to live with my bf and all she said was who was gonna take my 17 year old sister to school tniw 😭
2026-07-03 21:07:51
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Ckin' :
got 4 A+ and an A, got ask why there is an A? why not all A+, got all A+ on my recent semester, still got ask why my cgpa is 3.93 ? i mean, when will i be enough ?
2026-07-05 01:19:52
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𝐃𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐜𝐞🧞♀️ :
and id rather be selfish.
2026-07-15 11:28:48
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Lily :
Just gonna pass by
2026-07-14 08:22:55
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Jingle bell Hua Cheng 🔔‼️ :
Was told I had to be mature when I was FIVE
2026-07-05 04:28:39
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samantha :
THIS😭 nothings ever enough
2026-07-05 03:05:52
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Secret :
when I was younger, I always bought 2 foods each time, for me, and for my sister. I always save mine, and she'll eat hers first. But when I decided to eat mine, she'll cry because she wants to have it again. My parents always told me to give it to my sister since I'm the eldest one and I should know how to lower myself.
Now I grew up not knowing what the word 'Fair' truly means.
2026-07-06 15:19:12
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Khdeija SIDI Boubacar :
A healing eldest daughter here 🙋🏻♀️learn to be selfish and not wait for recognition and gratitude. Do what you feel like doing and if others aren’t happy it’s their problem not your
2026-07-06 08:20:46
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⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪🤍 :
So true
2026-07-04 14:45:32
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marcelinus juanovic :
gue disuruh beli rumah 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ema gw aja dpt rumah dr warisan kakek nenek gw 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-07-06 07:23:18
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watchvanessav :
That’s true, I was told I was selfish because I wanted to move to a smaller place I could afford and it would be my fault my adult siblings would be homeless by a parent who had a house with guest bedrooms
2026-07-03 03:10:23
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