You know this take is also selfish right 😭😭 if someone genuinely thinks that they cant change themselves for the better for you, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they don’t love you enough. There are just things that a person is incapable of doing, at least in that moment, and they know well enough that they can’t give you what they need, thus why they are communicating that with you. There are things that take both time AND support and one of them is improving yourself by learning to let go
2026-07-04 13:08:51
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yup2 :
Its always "u deserve better" and never "how do u think i could make the steps towards being better? What do you need from me in this relationship? What do i need to change in order for us to both be happy?" Its honestly simple. Half the time its just us wanting effort, we arent asking u to change ur whole personality and character.
2026-07-04 16:37:08
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alialicious :
i just said “you’re right” and blocked them
2026-07-04 15:19:18
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Mae Mae :
Unpopular opinion but I don’t think that asking people to change is the flex that people think it is. I strive to accept people for who they are and I decide if what they can offer and give me is enough for me. Then I move accordingly. I don’t ask people to become better for me. I don’t ask people to change who they are for me. If they want to grow they will, but it should never be for me. It should be for them. There’s a difference.
2026-07-04 13:45:40
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mira :
This hit a little too close to home
2026-07-04 06:18:54
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Gabriel :
fucccckk it’s GENIUS…
2026-07-04 17:51:13
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I changed for her bc i didn’t wanna say that she deserved better, so i became better (but anyway she left.)
2026-07-23 21:51:14
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Cloakyy :
You can't change someone bro
2026-07-05 06:24:45
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jos1yn__ ⁷ :
Im sorry thats such a copout
2026-07-04 07:02:18
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user9453676340 :
Wait block me rq
2026-07-04 07:22:32
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🤷♀️ :
truly believe asking someone to change for you, is just telling the person the way they express their love to u, isn’t the way u want to be loved, and maybe that’s just a sign they aren’t ur person, because if they were you wouldn’t need to tell them to change for you. they’d fit your puzzle perfectly.
2026-07-07 21:24:11
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Everen :
“consider how hard it is to change yourself, and you’ll understand how foolish it is to think you can change someone else”
2026-07-06 13:56:22
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we can’t talk here, message me on Roblox
2026-07-03 10:43:20
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baru :
Oh no thanks I’m not hungry
2026-07-05 20:59:44
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garrett_braden_ :
No it’s them telling you that you aren’t their person but they don’t want to hurt you. To be with you yes they’d have to change themselves. But they shouldn’t have to change themselves for the right person. That’s what finding YOUR person is abt. Finding someone who you can be yourself around. They physically weren’t able to be themself and that means you aren’t the right person. It doesn’t mean you are a bad person it means that you aren’t their soulmate. We go on dates or we talk to new people that we don’t know and expect them to do a full 180 from what they’ve known their whole life just for convenience. And that’s not how love works. It’s okay to try and it not work out. There’s billions of people in the world we aren’t going to magically be with the right person the first time and sometimes not even the 10th time. But if you just be yourself then your person will be drawn towards you
2026-07-06 14:23:01
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