@lolla_isntlistening: #relatablerants?? #dontflopthis #ventinghelp #howtorespondtovents #fypppppppppppppp QUICK REMINDER: if you have mental health issues and your watching this, you are loved and needed. I promise to you if you try your best you'll make it as long as your supposed to.

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luvev3s
eves 💫🎧 :
when i try to reply and help to venting, i stutter a LOT and i just say a lot of "uh" or just ask quesetions 😞😖 i love listening and when people open up to me but i need time to reply 😭
2026-07-26 19:12:57
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mattsoloisdagoat
Matt Solo :
I’m a good listener not responder😭✌️
2026-07-05 12:14:27
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mikey_manti2
Mike :
our immediate response is usually just saying we are sorry that the person is going trough that and we hope they feel better, we barely experience any empathy if any at all so if we say anything more than that it makes us feel pretentious
2026-07-26 16:31:35
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idkflover39
☛idkflover39☚ :
people actually say that...?
2026-07-03 19:44:36
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odditiesattract
OdditiesAttract :
My friend just says "oh" and "okay". I comfort him everytime he vents to me.
2026-07-25 00:05:59
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zikisarchive
diaryof.msomariii :
I hate when people vent to me I don’t mean it in like a rude way and that idc ab their feelings I just hate having to think about someone’s heavy problems and I never know how to respond
2026-07-26 10:53:04
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myself.10100
_I/Myself|Ribbons|Sam_ :
Honestly.. I am fucking terrible at replying to venting. All I can do is try my best and say “omg I’m so sorry, I really hope you can get better” and similar things and try to make them feel better the best I can.. even if I can’t do that sometimes because I feel I’m still being like rude or unvalid :c
2026-07-03 22:58:32
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raven_andowl
raven_andowl :
now make the "how to respond when someone vented to you"
2026-07-04 09:12:55
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chiarazaira
⋆。˚꒰ঌ ℭ𝔥𝔦𝔞𝔯𝔞 ໒꒱˚。⋆ :
I always spam "I'm so sorry for you" 😭
2026-07-04 10:01:01
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https.angelmace
froot :
i usually say “i’m so sorry you went through/feel like that, thank you for trusting me to tell me this ilysm/p (not /p if it’s my partner)”
2026-07-03 18:02:35
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cherrybombz_13
Cherrybombz_13 :
I buy them lollipops because 1. I can't find the words or if I can I will cry alongside them and that seems insensitive 2. they are cheap 3. sugar puts people in a good mood
2026-07-04 22:48:14
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ceceinwonderland_
🌱Cece ♪,, :
I lowk just say “it’s okay, just let it all out” or I try to give them some of my own advices if I’ve been through the situation before but not in a way that makes me the center
2026-07-25 11:20:07
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mirelinyh
♬ ˚. Mirel ⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧🍧 :
Even with all this tips the only thing I can do in that situation is listening I want to say a word I want to cheer them up but I can't make myself say it I'm afraid if it's gonna get worse.
2026-07-04 10:14:50
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im_so_swaggy_6inches
⦻𝖘𝖚𝖓𝖉𝖆𝖞⦻ :
This is such a good vid I SUCK at responding
2026-07-19 15:34:09
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henrytickleburg
Henrytickleburg :
"thats crazy"
2026-07-04 09:39:08
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ratchetthemedic0
RatchetTheMedic | 🌎🍝 :
Damn bro relationships are so tiring
2026-07-25 01:24:49
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r0t73nc0rp3e
ilovedazai :
damn people actually say that? i thought i was a shitty responder
2026-07-03 19:07:01
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kirby76557
MUNCHI☆彡 :
Bro I say “oh” all the time bc I genuinely don’t know what to say bro I promise I care 🥹💔🙏
2026-07-19 02:13:16
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x.bripizzaloverrr
bri :
i... make paragraphs. probably.
2026-07-19 03:11:49
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nothere7703
🌸ღ𝘣𝘶𝘯𝘯𝘺ღ☀️ :
Can I say “is there anything I can do?” Or “is there anything I can do to help?”
2026-07-23 10:18:45
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moonfire777
CAINE YOUR RINGMASTER :D :
i genuinely get SO awkward when ppl vent, i suck at allat.. uh-
2026-07-04 13:15:25
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local_goose24
Chuckles :
Fuck… i thought i was kinda good at comforting…
2026-07-05 20:33:00
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