@lolla_isntlistening: #relatablerants?? #dontflopthis #ventinghelp #howtorespondtovents #fypppppppppppppp QUICK REMINDER: if you have mental health issues and your watching this, you are loved and needed. I promise to you if you try your best you'll make it as long as your supposed to.
when i try to reply and help to venting, i stutter a LOT and i just say a lot of "uh" or just ask quesetions 😞😖 i love listening and when people open up to me but i need time to reply 😭
2026-07-26 19:12:57
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Matt Solo :
I’m a good listener not responder😭✌️
2026-07-05 12:14:27
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Mike :
our immediate response is usually just saying we are sorry that the person is going trough that and we hope they feel better, we barely experience any empathy if any at all so if we say anything more than that it makes us feel pretentious
2026-07-26 16:31:35
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☛idkflover39☚ :
people actually say that...?
2026-07-03 19:44:36
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OdditiesAttract :
My friend just says "oh" and "okay". I comfort him everytime he vents to me.
2026-07-25 00:05:59
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diaryof.msomariii :
I hate when people vent to me I don’t mean it in like a rude way and that idc ab their feelings I just hate having to think about someone’s heavy problems and I never know how to respond
2026-07-26 10:53:04
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_I/Myself|Ribbons|Sam_ :
Honestly.. I am fucking terrible at replying to venting. All I can do is try my best and say “omg I’m so sorry, I really hope you can get better” and similar things and try to make them feel better the best I can.. even if I can’t do that sometimes because I feel I’m still being like rude or unvalid :c
2026-07-03 22:58:32
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raven_andowl :
now make the "how to respond when someone vented to you"
2026-07-04 09:12:55
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⋆。˚꒰ঌ ℭ𝔥𝔦𝔞𝔯𝔞 ໒꒱˚。⋆ :
I always spam "I'm so sorry for you" 😭
2026-07-04 10:01:01
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froot :
i usually say “i’m so sorry you went through/feel like that, thank you for trusting me to tell me this ilysm/p (not /p if it’s my partner)”
2026-07-03 18:02:35
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Cherrybombz_13 :
I buy them lollipops because
1. I can't find the words or if I can I will cry alongside them and that seems insensitive
2. they are cheap
3. sugar puts people in a good mood
2026-07-04 22:48:14
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🌱Cece ♪,, :
I lowk just say “it’s okay, just let it all out” or I try to give them some of my own advices if I’ve been through the situation before but not in a way that makes me the center
2026-07-25 11:20:07
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♬ ˚. Mirel ⋆☾⋆⁺₊✧🍧 :
Even with all this tips the only thing I can do in that situation is listening I want to say a word I want to cheer them up but I can't make myself say it I'm afraid if it's gonna get worse.
2026-07-04 10:14:50
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⦻𝖘𝖚𝖓𝖉𝖆𝖞⦻ :
This is such a good vid I SUCK at responding
2026-07-19 15:34:09
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Henrytickleburg :
"thats crazy"
2026-07-04 09:39:08
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RatchetTheMedic | 🌎🍝 :
Damn bro relationships are so tiring
2026-07-25 01:24:49
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ilovedazai :
damn people actually say that? i thought i was a shitty responder
2026-07-03 19:07:01
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MUNCHI☆彡 :
Bro I say “oh” all the time bc I genuinely don’t know what to say bro I promise I care 🥹💔🙏
2026-07-19 02:13:16
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bri :
i... make paragraphs. probably.
2026-07-19 03:11:49
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🌸ღ𝘣𝘶𝘯𝘯𝘺ღ☀️ :
Can I say “is there anything I can do?” Or “is there anything I can do to help?”
2026-07-23 10:18:45
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CAINE YOUR RINGMASTER :D :
i genuinely get SO awkward when ppl vent, i suck at allat.. uh-
2026-07-04 13:15:25
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Chuckles :
Fuck… i thought i was kinda good at comforting…
2026-07-05 20:33:00
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