@phoenixpathway: One Way Access Is Control Not A Communication Style When he wants you you are immediately reachable. When you need him you wait. This is not a difference in communication styles it is a settled answer to whose priority runs the relationship. His access to you is taken for granted while your access to him is a conditional favor. Stop treating a fundamental imbalance as a personality quirk. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth

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51inthesun
Redefining Freedom :
I became less available/accessible. It's liberating.
2026-07-03 14:51:09
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jennyj33
JennyO33 :
I don’t get why he gives everyone else his time, attention, and priority. Like why me? Why can’t he just be good to me too?
2026-07-03 13:52:19
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minnie74house
minnie74house :
“When he wants you you’re reachable, when you want him, you wait.” Again, Landon —spot on.
2026-07-04 19:03:01
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joyandbooks3
Joy&Books :
Didn’t answer back the “how’s your day?” for the first time. I have better things to do and I’m not boosting egos around here anymore. 🏆
2026-07-04 16:44:20
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luckasylum
LuckAsylum :
😐 ok he is walking in the door and my fyp wants me to start a fight 😫 that will be ignored. ahhhhhhh. but I keep justifying it
2026-07-29 22:46:28
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xbaeleafx
pepperpami :
god I needed to see this rn
2026-07-03 15:48:03
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brookesnook4
B R O O K E :
You are amazing! Thank you!!
2026-07-03 19:34:59
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hundourbanwear
Hundo Urban Wear❌️ :
sir, who told you my business😂 I've cut the ties but damn
2026-07-03 15:57:39
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silenakester
Silena Kester :
Yep. And after our talk last night, I’m not as available now when he reaches.
2026-07-11 20:53:57
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flowersforalgenie
Jesse :
My ex was like this. Never any resolution to fights and if there was it was always me apologizing. During moments of clarity he would sometimes say that it mad him feel like a monster that I was always soothing him and not the other way around, so I know he knew it was wrong, but he couldn’t break out of his patterns.
2026-07-03 20:20:53
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flying414
user7951196315805 :
But why do therapists harp on saying: we don’t know. It can be many things. It feels like I’m being asked by professionals to accept stylistic differences. But this video feels applicable too.
2026-07-07 16:21:54
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diamondaundrea
diamondaundrea :
Thanks I guess I needed to hear this.
2026-07-05 17:32:59
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modernwomenoffaith
modernwomenoffaith :
IF HE WANTED TO, HE WOULD
2026-07-03 13:49:40
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amberb111999
Amberb111999 :
I’m dealing with this right now. I’m doing everything but he sees my pulling back as me being rude and difficult. Some how I’m supposed to have all the answers but he lets himself off the hook that he never has them and never tries to solve anything on his own. He will come ask me a basic question he could fine out for himself but if I don’t have the answer for him I’m starting stuff. If I say anything he runs out of the room saying I’m not doing this with you. He has taken over a lot of the dinner cooking because I’m not able to do it with my chronic illness and he is resentful about it and told me the labor of it is harder than planning and grocery shopping for it. I still prep a lot of it and do all the emotional labor of planning. He thinks a job is all he should do.
2026-07-03 15:40:26
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ogmitter
Ogmitter :
It’s sick
2026-07-04 00:21:52
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alongcamecarly
Along came Carly :
🥺
2026-07-12 21:33:40
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brat1969
leann ❌️ :
💯💯💯
2026-07-05 18:23:10
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greeneyes1000
Cari Salmon :
🥰
2026-07-04 10:51:17
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