@loganbarone: You’re not worried about what they think about you. Why? Because you don’t know what they think about you. You can’t. You can’t get into their mind. You can’t read their thoughts. So you’re not worried about what they think about you. You’re worried about what you think they think about you, which is really what you think about you. So it’s very revealing. It’s an opportunity to investigate your deepest subconscious beliefs about yourself. How you relate to yourself, how you see yourself. And this is good news because you don’t have to change anyone else’s mind about you in order for you to be okay, in order for you to be happy, in order for you to be in love. It’s about changing your own view of yourself, your own beliefs. And when you do this, you’re free because you can start living unapologetically and authentically. Just imagine that for a second. How would you live? How would you move? How would you express yourself if no one was really thinking about you? If you were free to be yourself, which you are, you are free to be yourself. That’s the good news. And understanding this changes everything.

Layne Oestreich :

I have nothing to prove to anyone, the only opinion to matter to me about me, is mine

Courtney Paige 🧚🏽✨ :

It’s so freeing to genuinely not give AF what anyone thinks…

Divine Reborn 🌻🪷 :

Wow facts

PaulieBoy :

and again🔥🔥🔥 hard getting out of my own head though

bakejuck :

You’re a savage bro

🌸 :

thank you

alexkipofficial :

Exactly! The people who trigger us / make us overthink most are often our greatest internal guides.

Josieallday888 :

What about when people are drunk and they random thing and become rude does it mean they have pain inside themselves or is it projection

positively bleak :

thank you for the reminder

user4720391318762 :

You are so wise

🦋tanya🦋 :

amazing,thank you ❤️

Shuggiebunny💕 :

l.a.u.r.a_77 :

this is beautifully explained 🥰

n.o.m.87 :

Exactly, and i worry that they are right

ellenvermeer0 :

Some people say: I don’t care what other people say or think. Not me, I do think it’s important we are social animals and it’s weird to shut yourself off from opinions. But… you must always realise that other people are allowed to think what they do, it should not affect your thoughts about yourself. On top of that, as said here, we cannot mind read what other people think. And even when they say something rude we do not even know if they mean it or what the intent was. We should not guess. We could ask.

Lilah :

thank you

kellygrantham32 :

🦋

save_rhino :

so true

Mindshift. ☀️ :

Live by your own rules! ☀️

SCookie :

Just found out Im a high masking autistic person. I am constantly monitoring other people's actions and guessing what they're thinking. Its exhausting. Thank you for this video.

magdapiersiala :

sounds good, but changing beliefs about yourself is almost impossible

jdouglas2705 :

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Anna.R.🎼 :

💯

jagusiaAS :

🫶

T j :

💯💯💯💯