@teaguzzles: Then they wanna claim men are more “logical” as if this belief has ANY logic too it #dating #relationships #attraction #single

Pierce :

Nice and kind are different things

°☆•Swa'li⭐️•☆° :

Call me optimistic but to me niceness should also just be the baseline for human interaction? I expect my cashier to be nice. I expect my bus driver to be nice. I expect my boss to be nice. While being rude equals an automatic no, being nice doesnt equal an automatic yes. It just means I'm open to find out what else there is to you

Gwen_✡️ :

No we don't. We want fun.

me :

I fell into this trap for years. what changed my perspective was realizing all I had was being nice. I was too safe too scared to say something wrong. if you're focused on being nice how charismatic are you? how funny are you? how smart are you? what hobbies do you have?

badboy667947 :

No it’s cause I’m fucking ugly lol

SJ_Killingspree :

people also have to realize, being nice isn't the only trait people like. I don't care how nice someone is if I find them boring

Kelis :

We are all literally drooling over Carl rn 😂😂

Ted Erickson :

Bing a nice person, and being a good person are 2 different things

shendragonn :

Also I'm not looking for "nice" I'm looking for kind and empathetic. "nice" is a social contract, kindness is genuine and spoken through action.

ISTANI FITNESS :

Let me guess… you are single?

Casey :

Just be a good person

Jeremy Howdyshell :

hi, yes I'm fat. I'm already well aware of that. No reason to try to sugar coat it.

k :

No but Caleb from love island is making me thing differently he’s so nice but everyone is ignoring him 😭😭

Andrija Naglić :

Charlotte D. :

“Nice is different than good” -Stephen Sondheim. That lyrics is SO REAL and has stuck with me for good reason

CelinaRollins :

mack :

when you are genuinely kind, genuinely nice, and someone rejects you, you automatically know that they weren’t interested DESPITE those things not because of them

snugglesnknives :

Its because the term nice is misused.

Starboy :

I’m not delusional, I know I can’t pull 😤.

KOLDSUN.GAMING :

For me I’m too jacked and handsome 🥺

thelosoliel :

THANK YOU OMFG OMFG

im_audtistic :

i’ve never rejected a guy for being too nice but i’ve been rejected for being too nice😛