@lisapetrik: A question for the good guys: why did it get so bad? #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #singlelife #attachmentstyle

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ricardusofficial
ricardus :
A better question is...What year did the manosphere get rebranded as negative?....initially, its core was about becoming the best masculine version of yourself, putting your health and wealth first, stop complaining and step into your manhood so that you become more attractive inside and out. But then some years later (recently) netflix made a documentary to shame all those men who choose to be better by associating them with hating women and incels, so weird. For a decade plus , it was... get off the couch, be better, get fit, know your worth, a lot of men used this motivation to get in the gym and get better jobs and approach women with confidence...but the powers that be saw it and didn't like it...it did a great job of collapsing that movement. It happened around the same time as being branded as the "manosphere"...before then it was just men realizing they need to put themselves first so that they can have a woman to protect, family, etc. You're asking a question under the false narrative. Hear me out... There are organizations spending a lot of money to make sure men don't unite under common healthy goals, so they quickly bastardize them. You could even make one yourself, call it, "The healthy balanced masculine project" or whatever, with great goals, once it gains power and helps men it will be turned into something that stops young men from becoming better. They call it a cult, promote the guys that turn it into something strange. So you're actually falling for what it was rebranded as... Soooo to answer your question...what really pushes men towards that stuff...in fact it's women...women fall for the rebrand narrative. We see that and see that in general women have a harder time seeing the hidden hand and even if you tell them, they get more love from the algo, other women, weak men, politicians, etc when they focus on the negative rebrand instead of praising men for becoming better versions of themselves. Did you even know there was a healthy version of this before it was packaged as the manosphere?
2026-07-03 21:25:35
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criticalthinker1663
criticalthinker :
to every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.,
2026-07-03 18:52:33
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jimdepolis3
jimdepolis3 :
Look 2-3 generations back in anyones family, what was life about then that it isn’t now? I believe you’ll begin to see the answer to your question.
2026-07-05 21:45:42
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jerzy.joe6
Jerzy Joe :
It was not influential at all . It was just a place where all of our observations were spoken out loud .
2026-07-04 02:28:01
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darkdemise99
DarkDemise :
Ask the bear...
2026-07-04 14:59:43
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jaycastle1621
Castle’s Cards :
It’s a natural progression of societal pressures pushing us all apart.
2026-07-03 21:17:44
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txntn16
TxNTn16 :
We’re matching energy
2026-07-04 12:19:48
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needmayo1
needmayo1 :
I’d answer but I’m under 6 feet tall so probably not valid?
2026-07-04 01:30:41
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pleasantlyparsimonious
Pleasantly Parsimonious :
Dissonance reduction through additional cognition; for people with less practice in self honesty it's easier to believe that everyone else is the problem than admitting your own shortcomings.
2026-07-05 18:34:55
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jim_lindholm
Jim Lindholm :
Social media
2026-07-04 00:27:02
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unfiltered_nerd
❌unfiltered_nerd❌ :
Cuz it’s easy to follow.
2026-07-03 22:23:13
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tmp231438
tmp23 :
because a lot of it is based in truth
2026-07-04 11:59:58
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johncasey919
John Casey919 :
An absence of real leadership created a vacuum where bad leadership was immediately recognized AS leadership, but the "bad" part took longer to figure out.
2026-07-05 06:58:03
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livenhandy
Arrowhead Orchard Charity VA❌ :
experience teaches lessons that once articulated are impossible to ignore.
2026-07-04 11:23:11
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l00kwhaticando4u
Gwenny and a guy called Mark :
What the hell does lower vibration even mean? That's not based in science, or any type of fact at all.
2026-07-04 00:32:31
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harrysouthflorida
Harry :
Rejection.
2026-07-03 17:21:32
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longj_jesse
Jesse Longsworth :
It’s the easy way out. Thinking about yourself and your boys doesn’t take work. But to think outside yourself and loving someone else takes work and some don’t think it’s worth it, but it is.
2026-07-05 12:44:42
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zv2213
ZV :
I personally believe social media and dating apps ruined everything (not that it wasnt broken before). When dating became a numbers game and more focused on what you see in a picture vs who the person is it all started to crack.
2026-07-03 17:29:19
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dadbod192
dadbod192 David :
They were done dirty
2026-07-04 00:38:09
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seanmathews372
seanmathews372 :
Lack of confidence
2026-07-03 18:51:11
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coachondemand
coachondemand :
It goes both ways - people want to be in control and have power.
2026-07-03 21:43:55
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axiomstats
axi :
The reason people believe bad ideas in general is due to a lack of knowledge. Whether it’s the absence of information, misconceptions, myths, or bad explanations, it all leads to bad conclusions.
2026-07-03 18:36:31
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poppapanda86
Poppa Panda :
happy to say none of my friends went this way but thats on the company I allow in my circle
2026-07-05 16:15:12
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siddicus_iv
Siddicus :
because they correctly articulate the problems.
2026-07-04 12:40:50
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bluecollarleftist
bluecollarleftist :
not able to stitch this video
2026-07-05 13:57:15
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