i had a group chat i kept "alive" for two years by being the one who always texted first. what got me was realizing my brain treated silence from them as an emergency to fix instead of information to notice, because a nervous system wired for approval reads distance as danger, not data. i recently picked up a book called "for those of you who feel invisible" while trying to solve that issue and there's a part about how chasing costs you the exact energy real connection needs to land when it shows up. i stopped texting first for three weeks straight. two people never noticed. one person finally did, and that's the friendship i actually kept. <3
2026-08-09 20:22:01
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Eyezzz :
All Facts, No Lies told💯
2026-07-05 02:34:08
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Bright Njoku :
Let’s brag about God small, me he is my protector😭❤️
2026-07-06 13:09:27
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Bren :
perfectly said my friend 🧡
2026-07-07 17:52:21
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Jeanette :
I eat alone. He is no longer welcomed to my table.
2026-07-07 05:09:29
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Angela R 💙💖💙💖💙 :
Yes no fake love ❤️
2026-07-08 04:04:56
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Angelia Smith :
i feel you
2026-07-05 05:46:14
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Pineality :
I'd rather a Yorkie
2026-07-07 06:24:42
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user1689121869484 :
Thank you
2026-07-07 16:04:56
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Annemarie Westerduin :
Amen
2026-07-04 11:05:10
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terriwilliams4021 :
True facts 💯
2026-07-08 03:00:27
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funland :
Amen Amen Thank you Lord
2026-07-07 16:04:50
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DollBaby23 :
Please STAY AWAY FROM ME WITH THAT FAKE LOVE!!!
2026-07-05 01:07:08
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Jenn :
Amen
2026-07-07 02:51:47
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Joshua Despres :
Amen💪 amen.
2026-07-05 14:33:00
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Tameika Small :
true
2026-07-06 22:42:19
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Barbara veney :
Amen 🙏
2026-07-05 12:06:00
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In Jesus name, AMEN 🙏 :
It’s exhausting 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💯
2026-07-05 23:46:45
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HoneyLove :
All of this 🙌
2026-07-08 04:26:26
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Elve _ :
I rather be alone, then be unhappy
2026-07-05 15:39:20
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Deb :
Amen!!
2026-07-05 17:46:17
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paulawilliams3381 :
This message is so DAMN TRUE!!
2026-07-04 15:18:27
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