@burned_notbroken: once a person hits burnout in their relationship, they are depleted and exhausted. Asking them to try harder is not helpful and will likely cause more damage. Give them space and use that time to focus on yourself so if they do come back, the relationship is different. #relationshipburnout #burnedoutpursuer #emotionalsafety #separation #relationshiprepair
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2026-07-04 00:02:41
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Shana :
What if they ended up telling you feelings aren’t the same & offered friendship. I told them I can’t do it because I saw relationship for us. ?
2026-07-04 11:45:53
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Doc Ali Chapman 📚 :
I am the anxious pursuer versus my husband is more avoidance but I don't necessarily want to put a label on him. After close to 5 years, 2 long distance while he was in prison, I am exhausted. We have gone to couples and individual counseling and things seem to get better for a short period and go back to the same cycle. I have tried implementing what we learned and even if I focus on my feelings he takes it as an attack versus communicating my needs. I decided to focus on centering myself and decentering him...especially after these last 90 days when I kept being hit with things and felt alone. He also got into a motorcycle accident (he's okay) and doesn't think he needs to change from it although everyone (including his individual counselor) said he needs to slow down.
2026-07-03 23:39:57
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