@thebisidavid: The pressure immigrant parents put themselves under is extraordinary. Private school. Clubs. Tutors. Activities.Instruments. A childhood so optimised that nobody stops to ask whether the child is actually happier, kinder, more resilient or more capable. Sometimes we’re not raising children. We’re simply competing with other parents. And the children are simply keeping score for us.

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bundu_89
Jay :
As a child that was given "the best" this is a very brilliant take. You have to evaluate what you are seeking for when it comes to your child and sometimes these things you may want may not be found in "the best" schools. Also it's important to study your child to figure out what kind of "best" is good for that child. The real best is stewarding your child according to the purpose that you perceive your child is here for and to know that, you have to be present, observant and well equipped mentally to properly steward each of your children
2026-07-04 08:27:17
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debbie.anif
Debbie Anif :
You know i actually wondered about this private school thing. And I felt bad that we couldn't afford certain activities for them. But guess what, everyone was alright in the end. Thanks for sharing sir 🙏.
2026-07-03 19:43:25
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afiaachiaa31
AfiaAchiaa :
leave them money, connections, good training, independence,
2026-07-05 13:13:50
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proverbs31.baddie
Proverbs31 Baddie :
Very wise take. 2500 will get him consistent music, swimming lessons and tech training
2026-07-04 13:21:55
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oritsejeetajuwa14
Orismeme :
The best will not be seen until later on. The last one is the right one.
2026-07-03 19:37:25
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user3208729436118
user3208729436118 :
This is brilliant
2026-07-03 20:57:40
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maxi_fx1
Maxi_FX :
Thanks
2026-07-04 11:20:34
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hilltoporganicfarm24
Hilltop organic farm,kokrobite :
❤️❤️❤️freedom
2026-07-03 20:05:05
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gerrard9998
Gerrard :
The best for me is training your child in the ways of God and he'll never depart of it.
2026-07-03 21:46:02
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7064667429sadiya
Sady queen🥰 :
no pressure at all ,my boys join football club ,just because they kept fighting in school during football ,they don't understand accidents in football ,I will just do it for like 6 months and rest ,no pressure ,if u are under pressure because of what some people around you do ,u are digging an early grave for your self.
2026-07-04 03:09:35
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goldcommunication
user5070178569487 :
I am not part. I thank God. don't follow the crowd. I follow my heart not a copy cat, don't have friends myself and my children working as a team according to my financial strength.
2026-07-05 06:12:15
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moz.o39
Moz O :
The best you can give your children is financial education and literacy
2026-07-05 20:18:08
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famousallamerican4
FamousAllAmerican :
The pass down from our four fathers is enough and it's a special gift that is enough for generations to come depending on individual gen. Private school or not, what will be will be. Remember the life we all have is rented. Just a thought and only the wise can understand
2026-07-04 09:37:42
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auntydrill
Auntydrill :
Thanks for sharing most of them struggle to pay for the best want till they grow and see best 😁😁❤️
2026-07-03 22:02:15
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mauglobal
Mau global :
👍💐
2026-07-04 11:22:31
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