@styledbysurvival: Not all men—but enough men that countless women have spent years exhausted, anxious, disconnected from themselves, and wondering why life feels so much heavier than it should. I know good men exist. I know there are men who make their partners’ lives softer, safer, more supported, and more peaceful. Men who carry the emotional labor, the parenting, the housework, the responsibility, the financial weight, and their own healing without making a woman pay for it. And I am one of the proud mothers doing the hard work of raising a little boy who will grow into that kind of man. A man who is emotionally safe. A man who respects boundaries. A man who contributes in real, tangible ways to his family. A man who knows love is not control, entitlement, fear, or a woman shrinking herself to keep him comfortable. But this video is for the women who are finally realizing that the wrong man can cost you years of peace, health, confidence, joy, and potential. Decentering men did not make me bitter. It gave me my life back. #DecenterMen #HealingAfterAbuse #CelibacyJourney #RaisingGoodMen #AbuseRecovery
Renee | Styled By Survival ✦
Region: US
Friday 03 July 2026 19:27:35 GMT
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vale_lockwood :
Going 7 years strong. I miss the idea of companionship, true love. I think that’s a fairy tail I’ve always dreamed of, but I won’t suffer for a dream
2026-07-03 23:29:34
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Renee | Styled By Survival ✦ :
Me when I first left, btw, in 2023 🤯
2026-07-04 00:03:08
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lilita fig :
yes 💯 I advanced faster financially, emotionally and physical when I am single 🥰
2026-07-06 22:54:11
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👑Nickie👑 :
I look at myself in pictures when I am single and when I'm in a relationship. I look much better single.
2026-07-07 00:36:27
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wishyouwerebeer :
I suffered with cluster headache for 10 years! Haven’t had a single headache since the divorce!
2026-07-04 00:28:56
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Sanni🦋Scents :
Someone like my comment. I need to come back.
2026-07-06 19:20:57
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Planets Of The Universe :
I’ve been single for 10 years now. I’m a junior in college, run a business, have a career, the healthiest I’ve ever been and living in the nicest home I’ve ever lived in. I am thriving.
2026-07-03 21:35:12
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Alta Aspires :
I have lupus. I went into remission shortly after my divorce. I don't think it was a coincidence.
2026-07-03 22:58:32
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DrBridgette :
Yes, this was my experience. After my divorce, my life soared. Even with 3 children that I was essentially taking care of by myself. 20 years single this year. It's been AMAZING!
2026-07-05 22:01:04
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justshamahere :
Single, never married. Every relationship was so negatively impactful, I’ve opted out of the previous dream of marriage and kids.
2026-07-04 16:28:29
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ashleevtx :
I have had blood pressure, pre diabetes, reproductive and mental health issues as a result of relationships
2026-07-03 19:36:20
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Bisouz :
After 28 years I was loosing my hair, my hands and feet were often swollen and hitching, falling and staying asleep, headaches and loosing weight was impossible. Now I don’t loose my hair, my hands and feet are normal, I sleep well and i finally lost the weight and the headaches are once in a while. That all got better within the first month after I left and even my skin looks better after being out for 10 months. I also have money, self esteem and appreciate life again!
2026-07-05 23:08:57
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AskMrsA :
I would say that society has completely brainwashed us to think that there's something wrong with us if we don't stay in awful relationships. I left my husband two years ago after 30 years. I have a lot of peace now
2026-07-06 13:53:17
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Femme :
I realized that relationships were a crock at age 9...
2026-07-06 16:32:24
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cherelleda59 :
You look like Ariana Madix
2026-07-03 21:20:34
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Kai :
I left two months ago today! All chest pains, stomach pains stopped the next day after I left . Never again!!!!
2026-07-06 19:48:21
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Nana ba :
I needed this 😊
2026-07-06 10:34:08
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Stevie :
I had so many health issues and gained so much weight!!
2026-07-06 13:25:59
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shamrock.kitty :
Agreed. My mood, weight, sleep schedule, skin, RA pain has all been improved since I went celibate 2.5 yrs ago—and I’m in menopause
2026-07-03 23:29:39
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marcie dillard :
After 30 years I became chronically sick and he left. it's taken a decade but my body, mind and soul has healed.
2026-07-04 00:24:04
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marleneandy1 :
Celibacy is not the same as abstinence.
2026-07-04 18:26:26
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Alesha N.Goss :
Me the day I chose to leave. So happy I made the decision to leave.
2026-07-04 23:56:10
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woncandy :
Yep I was so sick immune disorders
2026-07-04 01:29:23
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nursevivbsn :
I’ve only ever failed in life trying to be in a relationship
2026-07-04 04:24:46
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katarina :
Single and celibate ✨
2026-07-04 16:17:02
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