And no, you don’t have to text me every single day for our friendship to work. We are grown with our own lives. The best friendships are ones you can go 2 weeks without talking, and when y’all do it’s like no time was spent apart
2026-07-05 14:20:29
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🎀💗𝒟𝑜𝓁𝓁 🎀💗 :
lemme ruffle a few feathers real quick w this seemingly hot take: you don’t have to pay me back for ANYTHING i ever choose to buy you. i chose to do that because you’re my FRIEND. there’s no need to financially compensate me for just being kind to MY FRIENDDDD 💗
2026-07-04 15:15:00
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Maddie rose Smith :
Blessed because none of my friends make me feel like a burden 🫶🏽
2026-07-08 02:29:39
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Abbygella :
And yes you can cancel any plans with me and I won’t take it personally
2026-07-06 00:27:21
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Lisel :
I’m all for paying my friends stuff and doing the back and forth things but when I’m the only one paying for their things and they’re not paying for anything that’s when I’m like mmmmh no.
2026-07-04 21:12:08
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DrillersLady :
Nope, not beating dead horses. I won't be a long term audience to just staying stuck emotionally. Let's process it and move forward.
2026-07-04 11:16:49
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belladus :
Literally me as a friend .. but no one appreciates you anymore and that’s the problem ..
2026-07-04 13:04:23
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moreeofmonii :
idk y I thought we were talking abt actual horses
2026-07-04 22:31:34
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Skyyyyy :
My dad always said. Friends and family don’t asked to be paid back. We give and we accept. It’s the concept of loving. You buy me my $5 coffee. I’ll get your dinner. Idc if it’s more I’m not counting Pennies and dollars. I’m counting on my friends.
2026-07-05 00:43:55
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Jennifer Marie :
My oldest childhood friend just sent me $30 to go buy myself a coffee bc she can’t come be with me when I’m dealing with a breakup. Just like you shouldn’t settle for less in a relationship you shouldn’t in a friendship either. ❤️🩹
2026-07-05 16:24:23
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pepper reads ✨📚 :
When my bestie said she’d take an uber back from the airport bc the flight came in late. Girl I don’t care that it’s midnight, I’m coming
2026-07-05 02:07:09
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Inayah :
What if my coffee comes out to $8 dollars 😳
2026-07-08 02:28:07
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applejuice 🧃 :
I’ve never had a friend who loved me the way I’ve loved them, it’s always hurt to think about.
2026-07-06 10:07:45
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lilmoongirl :
I know what friend have me that ptsd. She’s out of my life now and I feel amazing.
2026-07-04 22:52:05
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stitch🪽🫧🧜🏻♀️🪷 :
my brother gave me PTSD
2026-07-04 22:27:59
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Shyla Kidd :
Oh I wish to have a friend like a sister one day 🥺
2026-07-08 02:30:04
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⭐️Lauren⭐️ :
Like I’m such a big believer in spreading the wealth within the friend group, I know they’re gonna get me back the next time we hang out so why worry about such a small amount when it’s truly a gift to be their friend
2026-07-08 02:02:52
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starrxgirrll :
I got called fake because I always like to gift my friends stuff little things that remind me of them like their favorite color or coffee 🥺🥺 I’ve just always expressed my love with showing up with the things they loved or liked I listen & hear you the first time it broke my heart coming from a 3rd party 😭
2026-07-05 16:19:18
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bagelwifcremchees :
I had my first group project in college and I brought up something I was interested in and one girl immediately shut me down, but then another girl spoke up and said, “I don’t know what that is either, but can you continue talking about it?” I wanted to cry, cause she was the only one who stopped to listen. I love when people reciprocate being genuine.
2026-07-04 19:38:17
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Sydney | Digital Creator :
I was this friend. Nobody was this friend to me at one point & for the longest. Never again.
2026-07-05 05:11:54
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vanessa lynn :
I had a friend that when we started hanging out I would get us coffee as a treat - I started seeing her more often and would pick her up, she would ask to go to sb and then not take out her money at the window so I would just pay for it. I was in college working full time at a retail store, ended my shift at 10pm, she asked me to pick her up bc she was sad, so I did and was gonna take her to the water to calm down/talk and she asked me to stop and get food, she ordered what she wanted, we got to the window to pay, and she stayed there looking the other way. After spending hundreds of dollars on being the only one paying for anything in the friendship, I finally said something because I’m a broke college student with bills, and I was labeled the bad friend and it just felt one sided. Later I see her repost something exactly like this post - it’s so scary some people can’t understand the difference between caring generosity out of care vs. taking complete advantage of someone. I agree with this post but it’s so important to pick friends who make u feel special too.
2026-07-05 15:21:25
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Mery :
Friends picking you up from the airport is truly the best feeling, that’s a different type of love 😭🤍
2026-07-04 18:00:46
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paedaeeee :
What does the horse part mean? Like literally??
2026-07-04 17:29:04
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lindareinhart95 :
I'm trying here so I don't know what's going on
2026-07-04 03:54:48
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