@justheressentials: This stuck with me… Realising I feel more peaceful because I have less triggers. Can’t rmb the original creator who mentioned this but yes I’ve been sitting with this thought for awhile :’) #selfgrowth #sg #alignment
Yep… love going places/doing things alone because I don’t feel that I have to mold to the other person’s wants, schedules, desires, habits… nothing. Just me & my preferences
2026-07-05 04:49:33
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Sheeraz 🍉 :
I used to cook these amazing meals when I had housemates because I loved the idea of someone else enjoying them. Looking back, it was almost as if I was only cooking for them. When I lived alone, I rarely made those same dishes for myself.
I had to rewire my mindset and realise that I deserve that same care too. I shouldn't need someone else to justify the effort. I can cook beautiful meals simply because I enjoy them, because I deserve to be pleased, and because I should be the first person I nourish with that love.
2026-07-04 09:35:55
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mammatrolltoe :
How very dare you?! 😂 I've been so proud of my ability to be alone.
2026-07-05 00:12:14
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Majestic Expressions :
Lately i have no alone time so I’ve just been disassociating
2026-07-06 22:40:15
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charlottejoyyyy :
Thinking about all the times i said i love solo travelling
2026-07-19 11:05:34
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Surviving2Thriving :
My alone time is the only time I’m putting myself first 😂
2026-07-06 12:08:08
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Kiah Davis :
Cause I really can do whatever I want. I don’t have to consider someone else’s feelings, preferences, existence, or experience. I can control the temperature, volume, texture, flavor, and activity
2026-07-06 19:44:45
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NailMeBri :
Definitely not a people pleaser just not a people person
2026-07-06 21:03:11
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Asuli ✧ :
Ouch
2026-07-04 09:07:14
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ShugSweetness :
No, I just grown to dislike people
2026-07-05 03:50:41
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andreaahopee⟭⟬ :
I went to the movies alone for the first time at my big age of 31 😭 it was wonderful. Gonna do that more often lol
2026-07-05 15:46:05
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Jackie_G :
this ...this makes sense. this actually had me say "damn" out loud 😅
2026-07-05 01:54:20
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Audrey :
I love my alone time and I don’t care about pleasing anyone.
2026-07-04 20:27:16
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thecoffeecricket :
It’s why I love going to the movies by myself. I get to pick the movies, I get to pick the snacks, I get to pick the seats, I can go to the bathroom whenever I want, I don’t have to pretend I heard what the person next to me said when I really didn’t…it’s perfect.
2026-07-05 12:45:36
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guiltya$in :
I love being alone coz people be testing me left n right, n i have bipolar so u dont really want to trigger me
2026-07-18 06:24:18
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alicia_vibes1 :
Solitude vs. loneliness. I enjoy my solitude very much and yes that’s probably the reason 😅
2026-07-05 00:45:30
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Natalie :
Facts. I'd go hang out with my parents and its a lot of "can you do this, dont do that, put your phone away, dont text, let's do this and I need you to do that" mind you I ha e a husband and kids I already dont get enough me time.
2026-07-04 23:31:33
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Coastal.Cowgirl :
Yes and yes and yes . People pleaser and empath
2026-07-06 16:58:03
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Emily :
Every damn day I come on this app 😭
2026-07-06 04:17:52
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Lindsey :
Woof. And here I thought I was just an introverted extrovert 😅😅
2026-07-06 17:56:01
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Melissa :
Welp...that ruined my day 😒
2026-07-05 23:45:29
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Michelle :
1000000%
2026-07-04 19:19:39
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