@awakenedwildsoul:

John :

so well said. how do I let my wife know im not running from her. I just barely can make enough room for my self to breath

unavailable :

This is all I ask for. To be understood.

krazinezz :

as an avoidant, my partner learned to have this kind of thinking. so grateful for him and his patience.

Christian M :

This is literally all that it is, perfectly said. Sometimes you can’t even piece into words where your mind races to. You just need a minute to get yourself out of it but hoping that your person is on the other side with open arms waiting to hear you out. The worst is when you go mute and you can’t even vocalize that it has nothing to do with them but yourself and needing time

♡ :

ik he's js overwhelmed with his own thoughts and feelings, that he needs his time and space for the meantime when he asks for it... i js want him to know that I'm there for him and make him feel that I care and love him so much. i feel helpless and useless. i get anxious and think hes 'abandoning' me... i js hoped he sees my good intentions and understands me why it hurts so much when he js suddenly distances himself without letting me know ahead and reassuring me.

Beaut. :

im the opposite i like being distracted from whats bothering my mind, so if i became quiet i want to be hugged,assured, and comforted💕

adri :

“now I know you’re just gone somewhere I can’t follow yet”

nqatmtq :

Judith 🌸 :

Everyone is different and should be treated with respect, despite our differences. If you need space, take space but say that to your partner beforehand - like “Hey I feel like I need some time for myself but I’m not going anywhere, I’ll be back in xxx minutes” That way your partner does not feel abandoned and you can take your time for yourself so that you both can come together happier then before 🥰

🌚 :

This is it! This is what love is.

Doug :

Nooooppppeeee. Not worth it. 😂

Stephanie Michelle 🤪 :

I would die for my man to feel this way.

securetheconnection :

This is so beautiful

teyana🌵 :

Oh to be understood 🥹

𝖆𝖑𝖞 :

aw

alex :

oh

kelevra :

wish i could @ you on this

teanna :

ya like jazz 😏 :

cute

dams :

to be understood

Limitless_Multiverse :

💙🧚‍♀️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🧜‍♂️🥰I am learning about avoidant, I am anxious…I Love Tipu very Much💖

mia :

This is very beautifully worded🥺

🎡Your caTalyst.miRRor 🪞⛓️‍💥 :

What a gift.

🃏🦝♥️BossLady♥️🦝🃏 :

Awwww I hope he sees this that was the best way to put it 🥹

🇵🇸Viper🇵🇸 :

to be understood.