she told me I made her feel safe and like she could be herself, what followed has been hell. Days where I feel like a person in her life followed by weeks where I just feel like her journal/unpaid therapist. If I could go back to years I'd give myself the advice to run
2026-08-05 19:23:10
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A. :
Put that on his FYP 🙄🙄
2026-07-21 15:12:44
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Jay Summers :
literally my life right now. Who knew that loving someone and providing a healthy safe relationship is actually what dooms the relationship!... I feel so broken, I don't want anyone else.. I only want her.. please lord put this on her FYP!
2026-07-08 16:18:32
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desperateBeauty :
'they did nothing wrong' is simply not true: both people in a relationship mirror each other. if you're attracting and are attracted to an avoidant, then you have an equally serious deep wound - typically that's anxious attachment. when a relationship fails, both people failed, in their own way. relationships are dynamics, and are always tailor made - not for success, but for revealing in both people why success may not be possible yet.
the _only_ way to heal your own wounds, and get closer to making a connection work one day, is taking charge of it. blaming the other only is stopping you ever achieving that, and is factually wrong.
2026-07-21 00:16:43
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hrisa⁷🐛 :
we can’t talk here email me
2026-07-06 10:44:40
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Kate :
I actually found someone like this, patient, calm, truthful, but after a short time i was like woah, i do not feel attached to this person at all, he gives me too much attention and i dont like that! I tried, actually to stay even tho i did not like them anymore but the “i dont like them anymore” stayed so i just told them i do nit want to waste their time on me, idk how to fix this, i did not knew i had this type of issue till recently
2026-08-01 06:35:58
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April G. :
so is he coming back if it's love?
2026-07-05 06:09:58
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SARIAH 🌺 ELENA :
They don’t come back,,,, they don’t want anyone to help them
2026-07-18 14:15:34
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_dome_cesco :
Never again.
2026-08-02 07:56:59
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cherry_bomb :
yeah this is my issue right now but ill still try to reach out because I know he's struggling
2026-07-21 13:56:01
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TheRealLife_freeza😈 :
Well she broke me for doing this now I don’t even want it with anybody anymore we can be cool but that’s it I want to be alone and love myself for now on
2026-07-08 13:04:32
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Amy Elizabeth3739 :
Perfect Timing.. It's not personal but you have to keep boundaries with them.. Focus on yourself.. If its ment to be it will be✨
2026-07-19 04:37:46
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Durande :
She said I felt like home. 2 weeks later, she was in Europe with her ex who treated her like trash 😂 1.5 years of my life wasted trying to love someone who wants to be mistreated.
2026-07-17 04:11:04
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🛞🛞 Zsuzsa! 🛞🛞 :
Can’t be so accurate 🥺🥺🥺
2026-07-04 21:02:40
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Coco :
I had to learn it’s not because I did something wrong.
2026-07-14 00:15:10
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Latinos_Speedating :
I wish this was in Spanish
2026-07-17 14:02:17
2
sono_uno_1 :
Im srry
2026-07-07 15:41:05
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ARAFAT...💝🥰 :
It’s strange how a book can make you feel less alone even when nothing in your life has changed yet. The Unbreakable Mind by Victor Kane did that for me. And right now, that’s enough.
2026-07-08 18:54:29
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Jos m :
zooo herkenbaar 🥺🥺🥺🥺
2026-07-04 19:49:23
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