@houseofjezebella: Phones have made it extremely easy to fake a connection. Picking up a phone to send a message has very little value. #lovebombing #texting #communication #boundaries #fyp
It creates a false sense of intimacy. We don’t know each other.
2026-07-04 14:55:34
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Le_sweet-petrichor :
It’s also a way to monopolize your time.
2026-07-04 15:58:14
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quena_ :
I tell them upfront that I’m not a pen pal. If we aren’t making plans to see each other, I’m not interested. 😭
2026-07-04 17:38:28
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Bunm Oluwatobi :
They are trying to speed up the process of getting to know each other to the cookie 🍪
2026-07-04 19:57:55
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D2W :
I get the ick especially if nothing of substance or interesting is being discussed
2026-07-04 18:45:21
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mommymode1985 :
I promise yall, the "communication" runs dry the moment we need to talk a out something real and important.
2026-07-05 08:06:14
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cuntuesday :
Specially when. they text "what are you doing?" None of your business
2026-07-04 16:54:11
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hello sage :
I’m done dating all together 😭
2026-07-05 00:02:46
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🧁 :
Communicate with money baby
2026-07-04 23:06:14
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sam :
Fr like unless we are dating we don’t need to be texting back and forth! And especially stop with the good morning texts 😒
2026-07-04 15:15:55
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brownbarbiiiii :
I completely agree. Such a smart take. It is also intermittent reinforcement. They are training you to expect the texts so you chase when they abruptly stop.
2026-07-04 13:18:50
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julie n wanja 254 :
They want to occupy your thoughts and energy
2026-07-05 09:02:15
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zion.yisrael :
It’s literally a waste of my time
2026-07-04 14:12:12
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Tudymac. C :
Its manipulation
2026-07-05 04:43:41
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Sunflower🌻🦋 :
I wish I learned this sooner
2026-07-10 15:11:38
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Elizabeth | Asheville Dream :
Yes and the worse is when they say you don’t text a lot do you. Like no buddy
2026-07-10 03:34:42
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raspberrycheesecake25 :
It’s a form of manipulation of emotions and controlling tactics
2026-07-04 13:45:41
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Izetta :
I find it super irritating
2026-07-04 17:54:54
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Kitchen Gyal :
I tell them early I don't do pen pals lmao
2026-07-04 18:16:31
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xeenamorph :
I refuse to participate in a textuationship 😭 you wanna talk then let me know when you're off work
2026-07-04 21:30:55
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Jam Jam :
I like to see body language. That’s way more telling
2026-07-05 16:56:06
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Tahirah P. Smart :
Creates false familiarity.
2026-07-04 19:06:09
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Deejay :
wanting constant access and crossing boundaries.
2026-07-04 15:06:31
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NikAnd🫶🏽MBA :
Just thinking about dating drains me
2026-07-04 23:29:02
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