@helena_earls: Replying to @Phoebe go ahead, be useless!! #codependencyrecovery #cptsdhealing #motherwound #eldestdaughter

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pradosprojects
Jenny :
I love this. I'm currently trying to find my value that isn't linked to this but it's hard, lonely and depressing. how do you reframe your own mindset or what other things have you linked your value to?
2026-07-04 14:08:31
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shmally96
shmally96 :
They think I'm dumb, this is intentional. I pulled bacccck
2026-07-04 20:40:16
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sosoulo7
Sosa :
Most ppl won’t value you but the right ones will and do.
2026-07-05 00:08:33
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delibriel
Deli :
I didn’t even realize it was a needed correction. I just got so exhausted i shut down an isolated. I was fine being the villain in my mother’s story. But becoming useless was one of the most freeing a peaceful actions i could take. I don’t regret it, i’m glad i finally put myself first because now i can be there for me instead of constantly putting other people above my needs.😭
2026-07-04 18:32:40
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sunstriped
Purple_Ember :
This, and doing a bad job with things I don’t care about! Everything doesn’t have to be to the best of my ability. Only that which brings me joy or is necessary to my life gets my best effort.
2026-07-04 23:32:07
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thesurprisehungarian
Hássáj János :
Going thru this now. It’s rough.
2026-07-04 14:46:39
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ni_senitnitsya_
pani_as I am :
I think being useless is indeed a compliment after being called all your life 'a perfect child, someone who doesn't need to be taken care of'. like I literally grew up fast
2026-07-04 20:20:32
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emilymullisen
Deborah the Zeborah :
It's me! It's important to not do it to yourself too. (self abandonment)
2026-07-04 15:21:58
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imaginingmyselffree
Phoebe :
Whewwwww, thank you 🫶🏽
2026-07-04 20:25:37
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lanakayb
Alana Briddick :
Omg so accurate
2026-07-04 20:17:34
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ivyn0t
darkslightofthesoul :
YEP
2026-07-04 14:54:51
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capricornin8th
Charlotte Uncharted :
I find it annoying that they call this eldest daughter syndrome. I’m the youngest of six and I exhibit all of these traits it shouldn’t be designated to one slot.
2026-07-04 22:35:07
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withdelightinmind
erica | with delight in mind :
Nope. They don’t, sadly.
2026-07-04 17:03:50
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jenniferbrady431
Jen :
💯
2026-07-04 18:01:25
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sarastiner1
Sarastiner :
💯
2026-07-04 15:56:13
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___kandigirl
Kandi :
💯
2026-07-04 18:49:37
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