I love this. I'm currently trying to find my value that isn't linked to this but it's hard, lonely and depressing. how do you reframe your own mindset or what other things have you linked your value to?
2026-07-04 14:08:31
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shmally96 :
They think I'm dumb, this is intentional. I pulled bacccck
2026-07-04 20:40:16
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Sosa :
Most ppl won’t value you but the right ones will and do.
2026-07-05 00:08:33
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Deli :
I didn’t even realize it was a needed correction. I just got so exhausted i shut down an isolated. I was fine being the villain in my mother’s story. But becoming useless was one of the most freeing a peaceful actions i could take. I don’t regret it, i’m glad i finally put myself first because now i can be there for me instead of constantly putting other people above my needs.😭
2026-07-04 18:32:40
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Purple_Ember :
This, and doing a bad job with things I don’t care about! Everything doesn’t have to be to the best of my ability. Only that which brings me joy or is necessary to my life gets my best effort.
2026-07-04 23:32:07
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Hássáj János :
Going thru this now. It’s rough.
2026-07-04 14:46:39
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pani_as I am :
I think being useless is indeed a compliment after being called all your life 'a perfect child, someone who doesn't need to be taken care of'. like I literally grew up fast
2026-07-04 20:20:32
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Deborah the Zeborah :
It's me! It's important to not do it to yourself too. (self abandonment)
2026-07-04 15:21:58
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Phoebe :
Whewwwww, thank you 🫶🏽
2026-07-04 20:25:37
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Alana Briddick :
Omg so accurate
2026-07-04 20:17:34
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darkslightofthesoul :
YEP
2026-07-04 14:54:51
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Charlotte Uncharted :
I find it annoying that they call this eldest daughter syndrome. I’m the youngest of six and I exhibit all of these traits it shouldn’t be designated to one slot.
2026-07-04 22:35:07
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erica | with delight in mind :
Nope. They don’t, sadly.
2026-07-04 17:03:50
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Jen :
💯
2026-07-04 18:01:25
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Sarastiner :
💯
2026-07-04 15:56:13
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Kandi :
💯
2026-07-04 18:49:37
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