@soundsaboutangela: I love when people articulate my thoughts so well and I don’t have to do it.. @@Kat Blaque from YouTube

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elderswift_
♑ Childless Cat Lady 🧿 :
kat blaque just doesn't miss. I loved her video and am glad she made it.
2026-07-05 17:18:07
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user239345898
Gone girl :
I literally just want MYSELF in male form. Attractive, in shape, educated, goal oriented, car, job, and my same morals/traits.If I exist I know I’m not asking for too much.
2026-07-05 15:35:05
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sweetaspie04
sweetaspie04 :
I first heard Lauren London say this at Nipsey’s funeral. “You can’t possess people, you can only experience them”. That stuck with me.
2026-07-04 19:58:23
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frugalgal85
Frugal Gal :
I’m fat and grew up fat. i learned a loooong time ago I was going to be excluded from certain dating preferences. lol as i got older, I became more confident
2026-07-04 15:08:45
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rebecca.tv
R :
I won’t reheat her nachos 📝
2026-07-04 20:50:33
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gloriaabbasmoi
Gloria :
to add to this, attraction is not a fixed state. people's attraction towards you can change based on any information they learn about you. they may initially be attracted to you and learn that you smoke, not they are not.
2026-07-05 17:19:20
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n.aghe
Nicole :
Also, loved that she named that relationships should not be hard. Which I think a lot of people forget.
2026-07-04 18:49:25
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honeym00n_bae
maiya :
We also need to accept that you arent always going to be your type's type.
2026-07-07 00:36:34
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prinny.la
Princess :
Yesss I saw Kat’s video and immediately reposted! I’ll add that this refusal to acknowledge dating as exclusionary is directly fed by the idea that relationships end because they “fail”. Sometimes you date and you realize you just aren’t compatible in one way or another or there is no genuine interest from one end or another; it irritates me so bad that people feel like they need a “reason” or something catastrophic must happen to justify leaving. Identifying and Ending a relationship that isn’t working is not a failure, it’s actually a success of your own personhood and agency.
2026-07-04 18:26:17
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dtaym
Dillan :
Having a front row seat and a backstage pass to my coupled friends relationships, even the “good” ones, makes me wonder if the math comes out positive, much less breaks even, so to speak. And I can’t say “dump him then” or I’m the bad guy.
2026-07-07 00:01:18
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idontlikeexistence111
Lone$tar⭐️ :
Being physically attractive is a currency and I feel like the current society tries to downplay it 😭
2026-07-05 18:06:33
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username19010640
username19010640 :
I don’t have the emotional capacity for all of the games that comes with dating anymore.
2026-07-05 12:34:26
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nonameidea__1
Quan :
Some of us ARE going to be left off of bad and boujee 😂😂😂😂
2026-07-05 04:59:06
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masterpieceofminimal
Brockelle Nelson :
This is why I no longer and will never date again 🤷🏾‍♀️
2026-07-04 19:39:53
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lylylvrgrl
Lyly :
Left off bad and boujiee is so funny omg
2026-07-05 22:56:25
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jouelzy
Jouelzy :
yes Kat’s video was such a great perspective
2026-07-04 14:13:46
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hex_hana
Hana :
“I won’t reheat her nachos” is such a top tier way to explain it YES. That video ess was such a good take
2026-07-05 21:14:42
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thedivaesq
TheDivaEsq :
You said Kat Blaque but I heard Kat Stacks and I was worried friend 😂 Loved her video and yours. I’m at the place where I’m not even showing up to get rejected.
2026-07-05 03:52:25
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diamondhamilton03
Diamond✨ :
Will Smith said something along the lines of ‘its nobody’s just to make you happy’ and that stuck with me. I can be happy with someone but they should not be the root of my happiness
2026-07-07 15:28:51
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momlearning2letgo
Retta B :
Understanding this was so freeing. Choice is everyone’s option
2026-07-05 16:28:53
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luyisuperfly
Luyi B. :
I loved that she emphasized that we should focus on those who DO want us💜
2026-07-04 22:33:15
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hopeinmidlife
Hope | The 2nd Act Architect🌀 :
Absolutely.💯 Just because you want someone doesn't mean you're what/who they want. We also don't acknowledge the importance of compatibility - and not just physical, but social and ideological, as well. S/N: love that phrase: "I won't reheat her nachos".(😁)
2026-07-04 16:17:32
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word.medusan.caduceus
🌶️BevoLottiBae❤️‍🔥🗣️ :
Always remember your preference has a preference of their own.... reality is you may not be it. Knowing and comprehending your attachment style helps.
2026-07-06 00:47:21
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itsmejeane1
Jeane’ | Wellness & Lifestyle :
If someone told me I could only have McDonald’s hamburgers for the rest of my life I would just stop eating hamburgers
2026-07-05 15:48:42
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unsure4sure00
unsure4sure00 :
Isn’t this just the rules of life in a way?
2026-07-04 16:43:33
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