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sam521683
sam :
this is a sensitive topic for me
2026-07-05 03:04:57
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505sabrina
Sabrina :
I would choose rejection over confusion anyday
2026-07-05 04:05:08
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yammaeyam
Yam :
My life
2026-07-05 22:53:25
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taherab
TaheraB :
I genuinely believe I’m meant to be experienced, never kept. I feel so temporary in other people’s lives. Everything I pour into others genuinely, I never get in return.
2026-07-05 04:26:41
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yaya.0718
YAYA🔰 :
I don’t think I’ve ever been chosen. I think that I was liked, lusted, admired, needed, experimented, filled voids, wanted and desired. Never chosen!
2026-07-05 06:52:11
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loveorsimilar
Ellie :
This is the curse of emotional maturity & self work tbh. You will have a great energy people love, but they also feel confronted by ur authenticity.
2026-07-05 12:28:17
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theonechoom
Choom :
the most familiar feeling ever "i wish i had someone like you" im literally right here
2026-07-05 00:29:45
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caseymac96
Casey 🦇 :
“Oh yeah you’re great I love being around you” and picks someone else
2026-07-05 12:55:08
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chikokanju
Kondie. :
Rejection is actually much kinder than confusion
2026-07-05 22:47:15
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therealkarlodwyer
Karl :
I feel like this is a better and more nuanced explanation of the phenomenon than the more commonly used term "friendzone". Because "liked but not chosen" doesn't have any of the same negative baggage attached to it. And you're able to cleanly define the feelings and how people act afterwards. So I'm going to start using it too.
2026-07-04 15:32:41
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eatsjana
eatsjana :
Without even holding my hand?
2026-07-04 21:11:31
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kidneystones1010
kidneystones1010 :
ANXIETY STOP!!!
2026-07-05 22:18:00
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gluttonous.meatbag
A Glutton :
It’s like you’re on an island. Great place to visit, but the only way you can leave is with somebody, and nobody has the extra room for you. You get to watch them leave and wish them well, and then new people show up to experience your island…
2026-07-05 22:32:28
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user5904436207965
Марина Ольховская :
It's a childhood wound. At some point in your childhood you felt emotionally abandoned so when you didn’t receive, you try to prove yourself to feel worthy so you subconsciously chase that validation from that person. You have to heal the root cause of it internally by rewiring your core beliefs. Highly recommend reading Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson, it's a wonderful book.
2026-07-05 17:42:39
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megsontheloose
meg :
The perpetual guest star
2026-07-05 13:43:01
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rice.saaa
ray :
who let you read my journals
2026-07-05 06:09:14
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catospheree
catospheree :
Always. ALWAYS. I have lots of acquaintances but I’m having so much trouble making deeper friendships as an adult. I feel not chosen by society as a collective 😅
2026-07-04 17:21:19
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emrysamare
Emrys Amaré :
If this is happening to you, the universe is asking you to set up healthier boundaries and stop people pleasing. Your immediate task is to stop pouring your energy into others and start pampering yourself and ONLY yourself.
2026-07-05 09:24:04
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lightworkermv
The Quantum Lighthouse :
Sometimes people like you, but aren’t comfortable being themselves around you because you’re a good person and they would have to stop bad behavior to match your energy. Whatever they admire about you may make them uncomfortable in the long run. Which means, they aren’t your people and that’s okay. 💚
2026-07-05 15:26:16
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