@sbiery: I’m still learning to separate his actions from me as a person. It’s impossible not to take years of lies and betrayal personally from someone who looked you in the eyes every day and told you they loved you. And after his 2nd affair came out, I was so mad at myself for staying after the 1st one. But what my therapist pointed out is that I stayed because that’s who I am. He said he was sorry and he loved me and wanted to do better so I believed him. But that didn’t mean he could do anything and I’d stay. It didn’t mean that I wouldn’t fight for myself. #betrayal #affair #sharingmystory #HealingJourney #divorce

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mamazanne
Mama-Zanne :
I still struggle years on that I am so mad at myself for not leaving after the 1st betrayal years & years sooner
2026-07-12 22:54:11
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daryljackson95
Daryl Jackson :
Same story here. Sorry you had to go through it.
2026-07-11 01:44:57
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dalewalstrom
Dalewalstrom :
Once that trust is broken it will never come back
2026-07-04 19:27:38
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designchic2023
Alischa :
I’m going thru the same thing, he took 25 years of my life 😢
2026-07-12 02:06:51
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rxtch17
rxtch17 :
Just a general question. Do you think therapy just keeps your trauma active? Nobody should endure a relationship with betrayal but reliving everything doesn’t seem ok.
2026-07-04 19:48:51
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markwitti
MarkWitti :
how okd were you when you met him?
2026-07-05 18:17:23
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amy.loves.curls
Amy.loves.curls :
My mom has passed but what I would give for her to say “I am on the way!” It’s the best feeling!
2026-07-04 19:48:05
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berthablue
Nicole :
When you have to try to convince someone or teach someone to be a good person or value you, it’s over.
2026-07-05 03:28:06
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user824114798771
user824114798771 :
So glad you have your parents support I know how you feel about family. It’s everything to me.
2026-07-05 05:10:37
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mariadoland
MVPD13 :
Be proud of the way you handled yourself. Your videos present your honesty, vulnerability and desire to heal. I watch your videos like I’m looking in the mirror. My story is nearly identical to yours. My desire for the perfect family, my support system -all of it. I showed up fully, checked in. I was also misinterpreted like you. You are a beacon for me to start showing up for myself with honestly and vulnerability and walk away proudly! Thank you! I wish there was a way to give back to you what you give to me.
2026-07-05 12:01:37
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nanabowden
Diane :
You are so courageous and strong. I am so glad you have a wonderful family. May God bless you. ❤️
2026-07-05 05:17:49
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bethyv129
Bethyv 🦋🌻 :
It gets so much better, I promise. Don’t look back!
2026-07-04 23:51:34
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jonnymhaynes
JonnyMHaynes :
I was the same in my failed marriage. When I finally said enough I knew there would be a day he was very very sorry he lost his family. But he was incapable of getting to that point without actually losing me. That day came. By then it was too late.
2026-07-04 19:18:42
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arleneesq
arleneesq :
Same, they took our kindness for weakness.
2026-07-04 19:47:00
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marionsiravo
Maddie26 :
I thought you were Helen Hunt. God Bless you and your family.
2026-07-04 21:59:50
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user78150476590744
Di :
We’re rooting for you!!!
2026-07-04 20:41:14
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markarnold777
Arnman56 :
You did the hard, right thing for your family. I admire your tenacity in sticking to principles for your family. Go on with no regrets and be happy, we're all rooting for you.
2026-07-05 02:57:24
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jessg.802
Jess :
After a year of EMDR trauma therapy I am so thankful to not think about any of the bullshit he put me through and what I tolerated. I have better things to do now. Wishing you healing ❤️‍🩹
2026-07-04 19:56:23
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joannek111
joannek111 :
He took your kindness for weakness ❤️im so glad you had the strength to walk away xx
2026-07-04 20:10:22
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bill48502
Bill :
Keep moving forward!! Find yourself, reset, and enjoy your life.
2026-07-04 20:29:12
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madyson_greene
Madyson Greene :
“I stayed because that’s who I am.” 🥺
2026-07-04 21:30:28
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amy.loves.curls
Amy.loves.curls :
That happened to me too! He just didn’t know me at all!
2026-07-04 19:50:53
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carfayee
Carrie Faye :
The moral of this story is not to let it take TWICE for us to realize he isn’t showing up genuinely and honestly. Thst is evident after the first time. Thanks for sharing your story!
2026-07-04 19:49:58
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doreenpia19
Doreen :
You can’t see it now but you have such a happy health life a head of you when this door close the new door the new life Will be everything you ever wanted. Stay strong you’re very special. You’re beautiful somebody will give you your children love you deserve and it will come easy.❤️
2026-07-04 19:16:24
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budz1750
Buds :
You will find better!! Or be happy with you children and yourself
2026-07-04 19:47:27
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