@mackenzieherman: These are strategic ways to actually lower the defenses of your avoidant. #dismissiveavoidant #avoidant #theyalwayscomeback #secureattachment #fearfulavoidantattachment
I tried all this and its not worth it. I was doing a lot and not getting even bare minimum
2026-07-05 10:54:25
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AES :
Avoidant here. You nailed it. Thank you.
2026-07-05 03:17:15
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🦦Otterly🏳️🌈🏴 :
The avoidants aren't very emotionally predictable though so that's what I avoid, I can't handle hot one minute cold the next. It's not worth it for me tbh. stability and emotional intelligence / availability is what I look for. I'm not here to regulate an avoidant they have to learn to do that for themselves. Yes I'd support but not to the detriment of myself. They need to feel, heal and let go 💙
2026-07-04 21:09:45
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Boatlife 🌊 :
I won’t lose myself trying to earn someone’s love anymore. If a relationship requires me to shrink who I am while accepting poor treatment, it’s no longer a relationship worth holding onto.
2026-07-06 02:34:31
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Vanessa Jean :
Trying to navigate an avoidant in the beginning part of a relationship 🤪 currently being ghosted
2026-07-06 15:57:55
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xandi :
What do I do if I’ve already told my avoidant who is ending the relationship that I will never be with anyone ever again? That I could never see sleeping with someone else EVER again
2026-07-06 16:53:20
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Bbowls :
Have you ever done a video specifically about space? So many people make videos referring to hours or days of space -which is easy to give. when t avoidant wants weeks of space it becomes hard
2026-07-05 16:41:11
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ncumisaforever🥀 :
My 6 reasons to avoid an avoidant too much work and they are not even making effort to understand that I’m anxious attachment style
2026-07-06 15:22:30
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Cornelia Schwarz677 :
to late unfortunate
2026-07-05 17:20:24
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Laurie :
yes thank you
2026-07-05 20:53:06
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✨💕 Expect Abundance 💕 ✨ :
NO!
2026-07-06 03:49:46
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carissa🧚✨ :
ok but can they also go to therapy in the meantime (i’m an avoidant who actually went to therapy)
2026-07-05 20:36:28
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Platinum_Platinum :
So yes that’s YOUR part . THEIR part is THERAPY or it’s just one person managing symptoms
2026-07-06 02:36:39
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Mel :
Straight up told the avoidant want I needed .. he ended up ghosting. I HATE I have to do things to make them feel safe when they need to learn how to self regulate, communicate and deeply understand their innerself. Someone who's always dated avoidance, I'm so tired of putting my best foot forward just for me to get burned at the end
2026-07-05 21:11:08
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Washington❣️John 3:16 ❣️ :
Sadly, avoids expect 100% while reciprocating 0.00% 💔
2026-07-06 19:52:07
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