RIGHTTT!!😭😭its so hard verbally expressing affection but i’m trying to change that for my partner
2026-07-04 21:31:27
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Eunsong :
The sad part is when you realize your childhood shaped who you became. This is why so many Asian people are hyper vigilant people pleasers, and the hyper vigilance causes them to excel at school and work but fail in small everyday moments in life and socializing.
2026-07-06 11:45:03
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mouse :
And then, one day, telling them "l love you" is too late
2026-09-02 00:54:13
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ActionYng :
Wait this is so real, it comes out half heartedly said but mentally to means so much!!! Attempting to ACTUALLY SAY it, is so difficult for some reason…
2026-08-30 13:35:23
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✨Chrissy :
They say your love language is the one you received the least of growing up so I feel this so hard
2026-07-04 22:08:10
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mel :
because our parents were never affectionate with us
2026-08-26 06:12:18
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Javmonster :
You don’t need to say those words to them, they likely will not receive them. I suggest giving words of affirmation to yourself first and find other people that will receive them well. You are allowed to create your own mini family now. Your parents did the best they could with what they had, now you have better than them and you can do better.
2026-07-04 21:58:47
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WhiskeyJack :
Ma'am this hurts cause my kids had to go thru it.. I here "I love you" 1000 times a day
2026-07-04 22:50:04
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Ken :
Big repost
2026-07-04 21:39:46
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Mitzie0338 :
Say it anyway.
2026-07-04 22:30:21
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🦇 Justina 🦇 :
Just do it. Even if they reject it. Be true to who YOU are. 🤍 not an easy journey I know but one that is necessary to break cycles.
2026-07-04 21:33:48
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ƙųŋɖıɱąŋ :
real asf well i think ur cool *affirms you as a fellow asian*
2026-07-04 20:25:25
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kitten :
I never heard that word growing up it’s asian thing.
2026-07-05 14:13:26
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