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sab🌸🐾 :
nobody talks about this my mental health genuinely depends on this everyday
2026-07-05 18:40:56
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nxjdxlmsm4 :
It’s so exhausting Wallah. So so exhausting. May Allah make it easier for us.
2026-07-06 17:53:02
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ʚїɞ :
i’m soo drained honestly no accountability whatsoever, love them but bro
2026-07-11 03:45:38
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Les 🍉🇱🇾 :
This is so true SubhanAllah I’m irritated at 9am already 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-07-11 08:02:04
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tabaraa :
i’ve honestly been struggling with this my entire life and what i’ve learned is the importance of setting boundaries. it’s easy to think that ur parents will get upset because that’s what u have experienced which is completely valid. i believe that setting boundaries even starting small will benefit u in the long run with not only to ur parents but also in society.
2026-07-05 16:30:23
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kiki.k :
so true I'm suffering from this 💔
2026-07-05 12:54:19
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Unknown.17102 :
Going through it right now 🥺
2026-07-11 22:19:02
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sabinaribenaa :
Been living this my whole life..
2026-07-11 18:30:49
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Tellthenext :
Caring about my parents' opinions made me depressed. The first rebellion was telling them I would get tested for ADHD. It's been three years, and a year since I started therapy. I can't believe seeking help disappointed my parents. I confidently say that the past year has been the healthiest mentally since I was 11.
2026-07-08 19:00:19
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Ummi :
Currently !!
2026-07-11 01:31:00
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misbah 🤍 :
May Allah SWT make it easier for you, it’s okay to question authority and seek knowledge on your own terms! Your parents also have a responsibility over you. It’s okay to disappoint others and have disagreements. You won’t agree on everything and that’s not disrespectful 🫶🏼 you got this!
2026-07-11 07:30:48
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dona :
I’ve been struggling with this as a revert. I visited a lesson on this topic a week ago. Look up the lessons from yasmin mogahed. She talks a lot about these things and she really opened my eyes, as this behaviour from parents and us is really damaging us all. May Allah make easy on everybody
2026-07-05 19:44:58
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Zee :
OH MY LORD THIS!!!
2026-07-11 09:00:01
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Pay_H0mage :
Live your life bro… as long as it’s not bad and your are genuinely doing it on good intentions and faith
2026-07-07 01:10:52
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Thankyoubutno :
I can relate more than you know. I’ve struggled with difficult family dynamics too, and it’s something I still wrestle with every single day. It isn’t easy, and it can leave deep emotional wounds. It’s okay to say no to something that goes against the Quran and Sunnah, even when it’s coming from your own family. Obedience to our parents doesn’t extend to disobeying Allah, and protecting yourself from abuse isn’t the same as being disrespectful. One thing I’ve learned is that establishing healthy boundaries is sometimes necessary. You can still treat your parents with respect without allowing yourself to be constantly harmed. If things become overwhelming or you feel stuck, I really encourage you to reach out to a trusted imam or your local masjid. Having someone grounded in Islamic knowledge who can listen, mediate if appropriate, and help navigate the situation can make a huge difference. May Allah make your affairs easy, grant you patience and healing, soften everyone’s hearts, and reward you for every hardship you’ve endured. Ameen.
2026-07-06 06:33:01
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AJ Suits :
I’m still going through it too, and I’m 40 with a wife and son :(
2026-07-06 14:02:09
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annndiiiin :
This one is so trueee
2026-07-11 17:10:43
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🧚🏻♀️ :
I got nothing from being the perfect obedient daughter for 24 years. I sacrificed my whole life, I put all my needs and wants aside because my only goal was to please them. I’m not “an angel” anymore because I didn’t give in and was being “stubborn” because I didn’t want to marry my cousin. I am corrupt because I finally started voicing my opinions. I am ill-mannered and wasn’t raised right because I said no to something that was going to cause me physical pain (I have chronic illness). I have never done anything wrong, yet I’m being treated like I’m doing the worst of the worst. Meanwhile my brothers are out there doing everything, but I’m being punished? I am being severely isolated, monitored, controlled, emotionally abused just because of my gender. Why was I even born? What is the point of my existence, but the mere fact that I am there to preserve the family’s honor? Why do I have to carry that alone? Despite all this I get told “what a shame you’re our daughter and you turned out like this”
2026-07-07 05:49:28
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haally0 :
I am not respecting anyone that does not respect me. I do not care. I am not respecting or honoring disrespect.
2026-07-06 09:09:08
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Imsolo :
Oh so we’re living the same life
2026-07-05 19:58:42
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AK :
There's a big difference between blind obedience and honor. When your parents ask you to do something simple that doesn't harm you or them or anyone else, do it. However, the gray area is where what they're asking you might harm you, them, or others or might go against Islam. In that case, you have to respectfully say no or see if there's a compromise. What you can't do is be blatantly disrespectful or hurtful on purpose. And if they're intentionally hurting you then you have every right to step away or put up a boundary. There just has to be balance, i'A.
2026-07-06 00:31:36
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BirdKeeperFarrakh :
I’ve asked this a million time and I found this video of Nouman Ali Khan who explains this very well! It’s under the title “how to deal with abusive parents” I’ll post the link below so you can copy and paste
2026-07-06 05:25:50
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Asiyah Jameelah ✨ :
Your parents lived in a world that will not exist for you. Do what you need to do to get your life together. Just continue to treat them well. Even if you make a mistake you'll learn through experience that's life. When I was 19 I moved from Michigan to San Diego for an internship my parents were against it and then when I completed it and had so many great connections and opportunities then they told me how proud they were of me lol 😭 Parents just want to keep us safe but sometimes you have do whats best you won't have access to certain opportunities forever.
2026-07-06 22:03:44
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