@joinmentalica: In some families one child can do no wrong and another gets blamed for everything — and neither happened by accident. It's the golden child and the scapegoat. The golden child is the mirror: they reflect the parent's ego back so the parent gets to feel perfect. The scapegoat is the container: every flaw the family can't face gets poured into them and carried out of sight. So one child is praised just for existing, and the other is punished for noticing — because the scapegoat is usually the one who saw the truth and asked the question no one was allowed to ask. They don't get pushed out for being the problem. They get pushed out for refusing to pretend there wasn't one. If you were the scapegoat: you were never the broken one. You were the honest one in a house built on a lie. The role was assigned — it was never who you are, and you're allowed to put it down. Send this to the sibling who needs to read it. #scapegoat #goldenchild #familytrauma #narcissisticfamily #childhoodtrauma

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Azurial kalal Alexandra :

golden but deceased tried to Scape me but they already got scoped and did not I'm a dragon hidden in silence until I flame on its ashame they was loved and cared about but could listen because of age difference bug fools are foul yo the cock or rooster (king my roost)

2026-09-11 20:31:54

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parasite :

on the scapego 63 years old and still the scapegoat

2026-09-11 05:13:12

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starlonurbain23 :

so true amen 💯 thank you amen scapegoat

2026-09-11 12:09:16

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josielangford :

scapegoat thats me still

2026-07-05 19:47:27

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Daharma :

I am thee “goat “😂

2026-07-18 17:14:47

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Betina♥️ :

Scapegoat

2026-08-04 21:23:06

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PeedieWheatStraw :

Don’t no none of them Go figure 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

2026-07-26 22:33:10

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🔥Dark❌Phoenix🔥 :

Yes!!!

2026-08-13 23:25:25

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lisamoorby567 :

I was that which made me resent my brother but I knew what was happening and got past it

2026-07-05 19:55:26

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Margarita L. Jackson :

I was punished for breathing

2026-08-17 01:48:27

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Quinno Brunner :

I'm awake the scapegoat

2026-08-12 08:57:50

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Trui :

scapegout

2026-08-06 19:34:16

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Henry dower :

I was the scapegoat lol

2026-08-03 18:45:55

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user7745816087992 :

happy to be the scapegoat

2026-07-05 13:36:16

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that one person :

the black sheep ...

2026-08-08 11:21:51

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Debra Loves Life :

I'm the scapegoat

2026-08-18 12:14:13

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🤣🤣🤣 :

i was the scapegoat

2026-07-06 18:22:30

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Leebo :

True 💯

2026-07-06 04:44:25

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anna mavra :

Golden suffers too. But less.

2026-07-06 06:52:58

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fNola Campbell :

exactly

2026-08-05 22:12:28

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Callum Alexander :

I’m scape goat

2026-07-06 22:25:48

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Henry Fry :

scapegoat

2026-07-22 13:31:59

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TEXAS SWAGGER@$$ :

TRUE 👍 😁

2026-07-27 14:54:49

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Quinno Brunner :

I couldn't put it on my disabled sister it's not her fault

2026-08-12 08:59:10

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Becky :

being the ONLY child carries a whole different jacked up dynamic 🤦🏼‍♀️

2026-08-24 16:22:38

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