@wanderlusqt: Replying to @E

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gandothers
G world :
3.5yrs together. April 13, “can’t wait to retire &spend our lives together”. May 2, “I’m a better dad than partner” & ran out of our house together
2026-07-05 20:33:24
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xo48222
xo. :
what about telling me he wanted to see me, and that he misses me. But then tomorrow or the day comes and he makes up an excuse or just won’t reply
2026-07-05 17:10:26
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gangzterofluvv
Moonminx :
Biggest lesson I learned is that intentions can change … quickly
2026-07-05 23:38:08
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americanfille
Amanda Rollins :
All I heard is I need a hot fudge cookie now
2026-07-05 19:17:49
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tim0shy
Tim :
That’s exactly what he did too. He asked me when we would be exclusive and told me we were going to plan a vacation and even mentioned us living together. Couple days later he broke it off saying he felt pressured. I was so confused cus it was him that brought that stuff up 😂
2026-07-05 19:42:52
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katehar1
user4773387310824 :
Yep 1 week later
2026-07-05 16:41:42
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dan_the_moto_man
Dan :
The day before 😂
2026-07-05 20:46:20
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dannydrock89
Danny :
she told me she wanted to marry me after a week 🙃 wanted to move in and buy a place, have kids and start a life because she claimed I was the love of her life(which apparently means the current bf). went on holiday to Nashville and told me she was living in a bubble and that she now feels lost and wants to move to America. Now I'm lost and having a hard time comprehending everything 🙃
2026-07-05 22:15:49
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firefromwithin0102
Lisa :
Literally the same day
2026-07-05 16:48:19
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harperdog2020
Elyse DW :
We literally just planned a trip!
2026-07-05 21:28:55
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ontheclockdj
user2168082669360 :
This is literally EXACTLY what happened to me. You’re good 😅
2026-07-05 22:44:49
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tagyourechic
Carlie💕 :
Few questions then: 1) did they actually hold interest for you? 2) what are ways to help them or ways they could help themselves? 3) can someone grow enough out of this winder enough to hold a long term stable relationship?
2026-07-05 22:18:36
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danielkilogram
Dan K :
That's sad 😢
2026-07-05 16:40:03
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renaissance.i.gue
renaissance i guess :
I’ve been trying to wrap my head around someone’s behavior for weeks and this just hit the nail on the head, ty for making this ❤️
2026-07-05 22:58:45
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aeriasera
Mimi :
he even booked it😭
2026-07-05 20:52:27
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auroraf.26
Aurora 👑 :
That and the story with the food doesn’t make sense, they don’t go hand in hand as you had the desert and the salty things but you don’t hurt anyone by it, neither by stopping having those things after that. Also I am not an avoidant but I like to mention about future possibilities, again “possibilities” which means it’s not something that we have to jump into tomorrow, neither in a week time, but down the line IF we work out. Many guys got scared away when I mentioned FUTURE PLANS. Those plans are for the FUTURE and not for now, it’s like spreading out on the table all your cards and seeing if your vision is matching with theirs and you can work towards it together for whenever that will eventually happen, IF it will happen, IF we are still together because people can have a chance of heart and you realise that you are actually not matching and on a long term you can’t fix the things that the other person does so yes, you leave a week later because you are not meant for each other. It’s like asking someone if they want to have kids and get married (in the future) and both of you say yes and then a month later you brake up and wonder what happened bcz both of you wanted a family and kids 💀 like the logical explanation is that even if you want the same future plans, it’s not mandatory for it to work between you 2
2026-07-05 17:30:16
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water.activated.makeup
WaterFlower Makeup Artist 🎨🖌 :
fatigue
2026-07-05 19:55:29
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joyce.marie30
Joyce Marie :
THAT IS CHILDISH
2026-07-05 18:00:05
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nananikki7
Unseen-battles :
Mine walked 6 weeks before the wedding he had pushed to get married 🙄
2026-07-05 20:01:00
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artsy_aussie
Emma✨ :
What happens when they say all those things and then literally say I need space and distant themselves from you completely. Radio silence. But insisted on meeting my mum a day prior to cutting me off
2026-07-05 19:41:21
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natasha_smith24
Natasha Smith :
Okay well I do that with food too and regret it and go back to working out and eating clean and keeping going but never freaked out about it ! same I fell in love with my ex husband fast but I enjoyed it in the moment yes felt some moments of questioning it but I didn’t run from it I just kept living my life as normal and let everything fall into place naturally didn’t think of expectations or losing myself never crossed my mind just enjoyed it and lived in the moment that was normal.. had no idea an Avoidant person exist till after my divorce because I never experienced this till my therapist who specializes in attachment theory told me I think he’s Aviodant it was that very second I said what the F is an Avoidant because up till this point all my experiences have been with everything but that behavior.. 😳. All I knew was either I like you or you like me and it’s mutual and we let it grow or the opposite and we go our separate ways never this In between push and pull grey area BS ! That shit was weird , confusing and crazy all at the same time ! Non of my past experiences were ever that complicated! If you don’t like me then leave bye ✌️and I’ll do the same ! I have past childhood trauma too but I don’t let it affect my relationship with someone I’m anxious yes and learning through therapy to become secure but my ex husband barely saw that side come out of me because he didn’t confuse me or play games with me he was there no matter what and without ever having to ask he just met my needs . I don’t need a lot I’m very independent just some love and attention and normal relationship stuff and I’m happy 😊 it’s really not that complicated !
2026-07-05 20:08:49
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muzyka.to.moje.zycie
Muzyka to moje życie :
👌👌👌
2026-07-05 16:33:55
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