How can you say they aren't a bad person when they are actively choosing to ignore someone, knowing the impact it has on them?
2026-07-05 23:54:09
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Bri 💜 :
I just wish mine would have communicated instead of ghosting for weeks & months.
2026-07-05 20:48:41
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ihytae Following :
whew k
2026-07-06 07:35:38
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Karri Elia :
This type of relationship seems possible IF they ever get to a point to communicate at all. It is completely self abandonment otherwise. I have to shut off most of my natural feelings just to exist as a crumb in his world. Mentally exhausted and over it
2026-07-05 17:40:23
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āshley harløwe :
Couldn’t break the pattern and ultimately ended. Heartbreaking.
2026-07-07 00:50:34
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Stephanie :
Me asking “hey babe what’s coming up for you?” will just make them shut down and run away and tell me they can’t give me what I need 😅
2026-07-07 06:45:39
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Stacy Hart :
Okay but the avoidant person should still be the one communicating they they are feeling overwhelmed and then set a time to revisit the conversation.
2026-07-07 11:50:01
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Nopeqm 🇨🇦 :
My relationship did end 🤣
2026-07-06 11:28:35
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Jess;) :
Unfortunately, my ex didnt want to communicate with me or improve.
He told me in the end that he couldn't give me any emotional connection or communication.
2026-07-05 22:21:46
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Christine 🇨🇦 :
Why is dating so hard 🤦🏼♀️
2026-07-06 19:19:04
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Vivi_Fr :
Nahhh mine gets overwhelmed, tells me that then ghosts me for days. 😂😂
2026-07-05 20:28:34
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Jackskaye :
Broke up on 6/6 after 3 years , they’re already on a dating site a month later. How ? When I’m a mess trying to process and do the work of feeling my feelings but I’m angry and sad but I don’t want to give them my energy . I’m so tired of thinking and crying and thinking
2026-07-07 22:15:36
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idk :
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2026-07-09 21:23:48
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jett. :
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2026-07-06 16:23:57
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🔥Dark❌Phoenix🔥 :
Date someone who’s like you. If they’re dismissive avoidant and you’re not, you have the wrong partner. The only things you need to have in common are the same values and morals. The rest is there for discovery, which keeps the relationship alive. You don’t have to have everything in common, just morals and values 😉
2026-07-05 19:04:51
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RRangel :
es imposible leerte, hablas muy rápido
2026-07-05 17:12:54
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thatgalinoveralls :
I no longer care if he cares or not. It's over
2026-07-06 14:42:36
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jamesnotbond00 :
You shouldn’t have to stop your feelings to make sure they can be there for you
2026-07-10 11:29:57
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Bluuni :
avoident and anxious
we always find each other 😭
2026-07-06 02:16:21
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Ilaria Bisconti :
How many avoidants do actually do the work though? Cause I feel that a big part of the problem is that they don't know they are avoidant and they refuse to even talk about it
2026-07-05 17:15:17
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woodenboatgirl :
Its more than shutting down, they never come to the plate
2026-07-05 16:53:19
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jc_gray07 :
You're right,it doesn't make them a bad person. It's not our job to ask them if they need a minute. they're an adult too, they can use their words.
2026-07-05 16:28:56
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ZT :
Unless they are so deep into avoidance that they don't wanna learn tools.
2026-07-05 18:00:30
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