@rizzzcam: How to be an empathetic listener: listen for the feeling, not just the words. Most guys respond to what she says. The ones who really connect respond to how she feels. When she tells you about her day, she's not looking for solutions. She wants to feel like someone actually gets it. Reflect it back. Show her you understood the emotion underneath. That's what makes her feel safe with you. Whether it's a coffee shop in Denver or a bar in Chicago, the rule is the same. Hear the feeling, not just the story. Comment 'RIZZ' or visit my profile for the tool