You can tell how much someone loves themselves by how much empathy and love they have for others
2026-07-06 14:46:31
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Winston Ashford :
Judgements are Projections
2026-07-05 21:41:09
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K_Huff1123 :
I judge people on how they judge people… what’s that mean? 😂
2026-07-05 19:12:28
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lance driscoll :
I judge you as an instant follow
2026-07-09 11:36:12
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Lex :
this explains why idgaf about anything thank you lol
2026-07-08 20:37:06
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JekyllGirl :
nah, I'm just a Virgo. y'all need to get it together.
2026-07-07 01:54:35
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Ramcal :
So if I judge someone for littering I have internal shame? Its not as black and white. Not all judgements projections. These 0/100 statements need nuance and detailed analysis.
2026-07-06 14:24:18
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mj :
Correcting the “I” to “me” was so satisfying tysm for that
2026-07-05 19:00:41
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Kish26 :
I, too, utilize the multicolor pen. I color coordinate all the things.
2026-07-09 04:12:46
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JerryJones2000 :
not true. I am not critical of people who do the same thing I would do. I'm critical of people who do things I would never do.
2026-07-06 03:52:12
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Gabrielle R :
I used to believe this, but I don’t think it’s as black and white as that anymore. I do however, think that whatever you see in someone else, there has to be some level of it in yourself for you to be able to see it. Like maybe something you’ve already healed in yourself that you can now point out for or in others. I also think it’s important to distinguish between judgements, and speaking truths/calling out collective energetic distortions.
2026-07-06 02:55:31
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frankie and little violet 💙 :
Our triggers show our unhealed wounds
2026-07-06 04:43:06
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user8381221350930 :
This is rather simplistic. Basic idea has merit but there is a vast range of analytical and critical thinking skills out there.
2026-07-09 06:23:38
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Space Monkey Jesus🦧 :
Being judgmental means you have values. If those values are rooted in tolerance and freedom then you will only judge people who are intolerant or oppressive😙 In all other cases, yes, judgment is projecting your values where they don't belong
2026-07-08 02:01:12
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Curcurouge (Scooter's Version) :
Not sure this tracks. People who are overly forgiving and never judgemental can have a lot of shame
2026-07-07 10:21:05
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Megan :
What does it mean when you're not highly judgmental of others & give them a lot of grace, while still feeling intense shame & giving yourself no grace 😐
2026-07-06 01:50:57
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GirlChild🌼 :
makes sense
2026-07-09 10:22:15
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R. :
nah. i mean i do and i do but like i don’t
2026-07-07 19:15:19
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Holly :
jung: the things you shame in yourself are the things you judge in others. freud: YeR MoM
2026-07-06 23:35:54
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Age_Of_Leo :
This is false btw
2026-07-07 08:38:54
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Golferholic :
It’s a useful lens for self-reflection, but it’s important not to mistake it for a universal truth. Sometimes our judgments do reveal unresolved shame. Other times they reflect reasoned moral convictions, healthy boundaries, or legitimate concerns. The danger is assuming every judgment is evidence of shame, because that can invalidate critical thinking and make the theory impossible to challenge.
2026-07-07 19:36:58
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🌜🌛 :
This is way too vague of a statement lol what types of judgment? Is there data to back this up?
2026-07-06 06:57:22
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Life-long-learner :
Sometimes people confuse my pattern recognition and pointing out such patterns as being judgmental when really and truly I don’t think there’s a wrong way to do life. Everyone has the freedom and right to choose their adventure in this life. I just notice what people tend to do over time. I also fully understand a person can choose to change their behavior and in those cases I do notice and note the new patterns as well.
2026-07-05 22:35:02
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kikiriki321 :
It’s incredibly difficult for me to be around judgmental ppl, like why do you care so much to have an opinion about others instead of worrying about yourself
2026-07-07 18:01:20
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gaiaaaaaaaas :
Nah im just a virgo✨
2026-07-06 20:16:38
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