I’ve learned that a lot of people don’t really want to change their situation. They just want to talk about it and that’s okay
2026-07-06 01:42:13
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__mygrannytaughtme :
I now look at people with a blank stare 😂
2026-07-06 13:58:48
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MayaThePhoenix :
Yes!!! Hardest lesson I had to learn I ended up w something called “Compassion Burnout”
2026-07-05 20:21:31
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Kiara N :
But as soon as you stop “you not a good friend” like wdh
2026-07-05 23:55:04
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_butterflydiaries :
you’re right, I’m starting to just be extremely direct to ppl.
2026-07-17 18:42:01
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meelio 💰 :
They actually enjoy the complaining and nagging all day 😂
2026-07-19 00:28:53
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RDiane :
This is the best advice! Don’t give people advice, even if they ask for it because they’re going to do what they want to do anyway.
2026-07-05 22:55:21
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unitedstatesofgemini03 :
Once I stopped doing all that, my life has been peaceful
2026-07-06 02:03:38
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Kween 🪬 :
India arie need to watch this
2026-07-05 21:44:21
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🌶️ :
You’re giving advice rn tho
2026-07-08 04:42:10
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Jovhanna :
The second I stopped caring, my quality of life improved
2026-07-07 04:25:55
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Starr ✨ :
People just wanna hear themselves talk
2026-07-08 07:20:16
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.Thrive.with. Gopie;T :
“Some people only appreciate the hands that helped them up until they feel tall enough to look down.”
2026-07-09 19:12:56
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nickmbugua :
I can’t even solve my own problems 😭
2026-07-09 20:41:38
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T💗 :
I always ask “do you want a solution” or do you just want to vent. Cause im not saying nothing else after you come to me for the 3rd time w/ the same issue.
2026-07-06 13:54:29
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Noir En Fleurs :
I just be like oh wow!
2026-07-06 00:48:07
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Destiny :
I hate i learned this im life so late
2026-07-14 18:54:58
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LENA✮ִֶָ :
l stopped doing anything for anyone you do you hun
2026-07-09 18:38:38
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willasia 🎀 :
i’ve learned this i just listen, say ok, and move on bc hearing about sb else’s problems all the time & when you give advice they do the complete opposite is draining…
2026-07-08 15:08:56
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naturallyjass :
The first question you’re supposed to ask is “do you want advice or just a listening ear” .. this saves everyone tbh
2026-07-06 01:08:26
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RayeofSunshine :
And close your ears to all that venting too. At some point they have to listen to themselves to solve their problems. You can’t always be a listening ear for every negative thing in their life.
2026-07-06 11:01:51
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therealavis :
I don’t tell people shiit no more especially if you talking bout the same problem more than twice Without a resolution. I keep my mouth shut
2026-07-06 03:50:10
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Temps :
I’ve started saying “I can’t tell you what to do. Do what’s best for you”
2026-07-06 00:20:49
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