@mackenzieherman: It’s also incredibly emotional, they are in survival mode when they do this. It does not come from regulation, its protection for them. #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #breakup

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reeceda
reeceda :
It is DEEPLY unfair.
2026-07-05 19:25:48
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jaxse24
JD :
I wish I could be avoidant, that seems so much f$$$ing easier.
2026-07-06 22:02:09
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_williamfm
_williamfm :
7 months now, since January. I can say I healed, but I get these random moments of deep sadness and even tears and just randomly she pops into my head.
2026-07-07 07:34:31
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crazydimes1
The Anxious Bell :
It's hard to hear someone's voice that made your heart skip a beat a day before, talk to you in a distant, annoyed voice, like a customer service rep who knows you were over charged but doesn't want to deal with it.
2026-07-06 20:51:14
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jayfrancisco5375
Jay Francisco G❌ G7️⃣ :
The best part comes when you truly don't care about how they feel, think or act. You seal the door and lose all concern.
2026-07-05 23:09:46
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_______nyx
Nyx :
does that mean that i can eventually ask her if she was ever in love with me and get an honest answer? it has been over a year without contact
2026-07-06 11:47:36
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444zofleur
444zofleur :
I’m not sure the true memories will ever come back to him. The rewriting seems to be the sealed version now.
2026-07-06 08:30:20
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tylerunscripted
Tyler Memoir & Essayist. 🖋️ :
It’s like we never existed. The worst thing I e ever gone through.
2026-07-06 00:39:13
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sim1181
Corey Shaffer :
This is my why….
2026-07-06 00:27:52
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jefferyrohr
jefferyrohr :
hello
2026-07-05 23:43:35
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dj.pepper0
Steven W :
What up Mack.. Glad you're back.. I know you've been working on your self.. 🥰🥰
2026-07-05 23:56:03
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t1b2n3l4
t1b2n3l4 :
Omg yes!! I was actually the one who dumped him and he said to everyone that we “mutually ended things” because we were “seeing things differently”.
2026-07-07 07:41:51
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mizscorpio4u
TheNicole Williams :
You are spot on. I'm going through this with my avoidant right now
2026-07-07 01:50:25
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jennifer_lou_
Jennifer Lou :
It’s so painful to see happen in real time, because it means so much to you, but it’s also maddening because it makes NO sense. (I say this with zero hate, just sadness for both sides)
2026-07-06 12:40:04
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chaoticcat77
𝕁𝕖𝕤 :
I wish I had that handbook! Always the same..
2026-07-06 18:16:11
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muddyw0lf
Muddyw0lf :
@@jfayepaints #JustineLatham sorry if I overwhelmed you
2026-07-06 22:07:41
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tracym500
tracym500 :
So now I’m left to carry the issues she accused me of 🫣
2026-07-06 11:56:01
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alvinbondsii
Alvin Bonds II, Ph.D. :
Therapy
2026-07-05 22:49:43
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whatupholmes
Jessie Holmes :
And then what? Do we take them back? Because it seems like it would be a repeat eventually until they fix themselves. How do they fix themselves so that doesn’t happen again?
2026-07-05 20:34:43
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spunbrearing05
FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
Imagine dealing with 23 years of this and not having the stones to stand up for yourself.
2026-07-06 02:41:54
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martiigaa
Martii :
I think this is the worst thing that can happen to you if you are an anxious person like my
2026-07-06 19:30:48
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