Thomas Rudy
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Suzan :
I’m dutch, I’m literally build to complain about everything
2026-07-10 08:29:25
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101 Reasons To Ride :
the secret is to not give a shit, you cant be ungrateful ab situations that suck, but you can be like "meh, that happened" and go on.
2026-07-10 05:40:26
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Ajoura🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️/ᛑᛗᛛ :
while this is true, is the inverse also not correct? if someone is living a negative life, that will lead them to expressing more negativity and feeling less optimistic.
2026-07-10 11:21:49
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Ezzie :
"The happiness of you life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." — Marcus Aurelius.
2026-07-07 14:19:01
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tufsahufsa :
A negative mind will never lead a positive life
2026-07-08 21:47:54
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Washingtonrain :
people pleasing is also bad for you. It's about balance.
2026-07-05 20:09:20
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Sarah :
I’m so grateful for the ✨opportunity✨ the TFL gave me being delayed 3 hours in a heatwave 🥰
2026-07-10 08:17:13
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danica✨ :
uh oh
2026-07-05 20:03:57
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Stannie :
That sounds an awful lot like bottling up emotions instead of letting them out by complaining about something terrible. Instead, trying to cope by forcing yourself to see the positive parts and trying to convince yourself you're grateful for them when really you're just upset at what happened. This won't work
2026-07-09 22:49:38
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starsinmyhair :
yes yes yes yes!! and if you cant immediately be grateful or optimistic, try to just be neutral about it! just go “oh well!” and forget about it
2026-07-10 15:11:06
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Comedy car renders :
suppressing negativity never ends well, just be positive about yourself being negative (actually a positive thing). negativity has a function, its how you set boundaries, thats good. you can be negative in a nice way. no boundaries means you just becomes this forced happy person, that is not true to yourself and will develop all sorts of toxic survival mechanisms with this 'positivity' thats not actually positive.
2026-07-08 17:31:36
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kaptainkatze :
my mum makes me complain
2026-07-10 18:57:03
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Kara Hamilton :
I told my ex this constantly, told him to say more positive things, even if he doesn't believe it, because it still works
2026-07-09 11:38:27
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lindsayskneehurts :
Instructions unclear: I’m now depressed
2026-07-07 23:32:29
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Cyndie 🧘🏼♀️ :
Tell people how you feel. Don’t keep everything inside. You don’t have to be positive all the time that’s not natural/normal (i think it’s Just liying to yourself) . Life isn’t always easy and that’s okay. Allow yourself to feel every emotion without guilt. Be honest with yourself, learn from your mistakes, do your best, and keep moving forward. Real peace doesn’t come from pretending everything is perfect. It comes from accepting life as it is and choosing to grow through it. ✨
2026-07-09 04:02:52
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ivanpvolkov :
Instead of complaining, I just try to use my energy to fix what I’m not happy about.
2026-07-08 05:47:13
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aelendal :
what do you think about the statement that a happy life is only possible if you ignore what is actually going on in the world? that good things sometimes happen doesn't even come close to the overwhelming evil that is happening all around us
2026-07-09 14:12:41
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BA CONSULTING RH :
OPTIMISM ✨
2026-07-09 08:02:12
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Puppy :
Ya know what thank you, Sora from kingdom hearts. I will practice active positivity daily and get better at it and improve my life through repetition of expressing gratitude for the things already in my life and move on to receive more positive things.
2026-07-05 22:04:35
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T0asted_bunny_ :
Can't agree, complaining is my favorite hobby, complaining doesn't inherently mean negative 🤷😂
2026-07-10 09:25:23
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TheNutmeister :
Correlation does not mean causation
2026-07-10 06:38:01
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tiktok :
what if your partner always talks negatively and u try to be positive
2026-07-09 07:17:02
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eva ⊬ :
i guess my ex is speed running life ?
2026-07-10 08:32:43
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Jenny :
This is so true for most negative thinking patterns etc! Anxious thoughts? This is it! Fair thinking is a great tool for that kind of thing. I do hope this ends up on the right pages. If you read this please learn from me - it gets harder and more complicated as the years go on. Don’t waste your beautiful life not tackling your thought spirals, learn self-compassion, seek help
2026-07-10 12:02:58
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