@kiamumjourney: being the default parent is realizing you became the reminder, the planner, the finder of all lost things, the snack manager, the emotional support human, and somehow also the house reset button 😭 i love my family, but i’m learning love does not mean doing everything alone. these little rules are not me being “too much”… they’re me trying to stay soft without burning out. #pokpokpartner #defaultparent #momlife #motherhoodunfiltered #toddlermom