@keithshorter1: Dating Over 40: 10 Common Mistakes 1. Dating because you’re lonely instead of because you’re ready.#coachk #qotd #MentalHealth #dating #datingadvice Loneliness is not a relationship qualification. 2. Ignoring red flags because you don’t want to start over. Desperation makes excuses. Clarity makes decisions. 3. Bringing unresolved baggage into a new relationship. Heal before you attach. 4. Falling for potential instead of reality. Date who they are, not who you hope they’ll become. 5. Losing yourself trying to keep someone else. Never sacrifice your identity for companionship.
Im a homebody and apparently no one is in my home for me to date...
2026-07-05 23:07:43
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Cynthia Davis :
No mistake, I lost my hunny 😭
2026-07-10 22:31:27
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Pamela61 :
not being honest about what you really want in a relationship
2026-07-06 00:21:53
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Chocolate Thunder G :
My opinion is that people are not being truthful it’s ok to agree to disagree
2026-07-16 04:43:20
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Sharon McCoy :
Not going out no one will come to my door
2026-07-06 01:22:07
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Deidre Dixon :
I’m not any type of expert, but I think giving up too easily is one of the biggest mistakes. It takes time and we need to be patient.
2026-07-05 23:34:58
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Tina Tara :
Overthinking and staying in your comfort zone 🥰
2026-07-26 19:01:29
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Mslivinglife :
Listening to respond instead of listening to understand. Giving up to soon.
2026-07-06 03:11:22
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Rena Ree (Gen❌) :
People are moving too fast whenever they meet someone new
2026-07-06 02:55:51
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PrincesdJan :
Saying you want to date but not showing engagement and intentions.
2026-07-06 12:43:34
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Beautii46 :
Overthinking
2026-07-06 16:00:53
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KBSPARKLEZ :
I think overthinking!
2026-07-06 02:06:15
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Kristy, LPCC❌ :
Oh the list is long. I think I hold the world record for making mistakes 😂
2026-07-06 03:05:42
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Davida 🇺🇸❌️ :
Overthinking and settling ( this includes ignoring red flags).
2026-07-06 17:31:51
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LJ :
Absolutely 💯💯💯
2026-07-07 19:51:01
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leshaevalentine67 :
Listening is the number one💯and , not knowing exactly what you want
2026-07-05 23:40:42
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NaDenna aka #chocolate drop :
so many men i come into contact with want to be in the house dating IS NOT watching something and chilling / drinks and dinner ain't it let DUE something lets know how to have an ADULT Conversation
2026-07-11 20:47:56
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Rosie :
Trying to date in their 40’s as if they are still 20
2026-07-06 03:15:53
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Barbra McKnight :
Not getting out and socializing; the lies for second question
2026-07-05 23:39:36
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gilbertappiah :
PLEASE I NEED A JOB
2026-08-03 02:28:50
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LJ :
The other common mistake that people are making no one is listening to each other no communication everybody is all about self I want I want nobody's willing to compromise or even have a decent conversation everybody's playing games💯💯💯💯 real talk it's not all about sex nobody want anything real anymore
2026-07-07 19:52:57
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