I'll raise you this: I don't think wanting to be attractive to men is inherently anti or non-feminist. If you're attracted to men, wanting to be attractive to them is simply natural and shouldn't be contradictory to not centering them. Therefore, even if you shave your legs for the purpose of being attractive to a man rather than "for yourself", that does not make you any less of a feminist, because at the end of the day, you still did it for yourself.
2026-07-07 06:35:18
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⋆. 𐙚˚࿔𝓡𝓸𝓼𝓮 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
its weird cause im a lesbian yet I want to attractive to men even though id never date them lol
2026-07-06 19:58:58
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kat:) :
The same way I agree with ‘no ethical consumption under capitalism’ is how I feel about any choice I make in the patriarchy
2026-07-06 02:10:19
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𝑣𝑖𝑜𝑙𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒 ⋆˙⟡ :
i am a lesbian who also shaves my legs 😭 because contrary to popular belief we ALSO most of the time prefer the look of clean shaved legs aswell. i don’t think that means that we were conditioned into it. we just appreciate effort. shaving is an effort, doing your hair and makeup is an effort. and we can appreciate these things. not everything women like or do is patriarchal. we are also free thinkers with preferences :0
2026-07-07 18:09:08
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Gia :
This is the world we live in, regardless of how we want it to be. That means that makeup and wanting to look pretty may be a direct result of patriarchy. HOWEVER, I don’t have to dissect it completely. I can just like makeup. I can just like feeling pretty. That doesn’t make me weak or insecure or someone who cares more about men’s opinions than my own. I am allowed to find joy in the world we live in, even if that means liking something I’m “not supposed” to
2026-07-06 14:23:58
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Ivy Ana :
When I want to make changes but I’m not sure about it, I ask my husbands opinion. He wouldn’t be upset if I went against it, but if I’m on the fence and he’s leaning more towards one side, I’ll go with his choice
2026-07-06 16:14:57
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Cas₊˚⊹♡ :
I have a masters. I’m perusing a career I love. I travel with my friends regularly. I have been passionate about women’s rights, femicide, and girls education for as long as I can recall. And I still want a man to love me. Damn me to hell.
2026-07-07 14:01:49
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forgetmenot :
Oh I needed that ngl
2026-07-06 18:06:31
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ChristinaHopeGarcia :
No bc ur correct
2026-07-06 18:27:16
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Lilith :
THIS
2026-07-06 19:15:04
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Trinity Faith •UNFILTERED :
THIS
2026-07-06 01:40:57
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Brandon Schoonmaker :
Well said. I’m a guy that does not want to be centered. Please. Be you.
2026-07-09 00:41:37
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Ro :
Thank you for this bc why are we acting like shaving my legs will destroy the patriarchy
2026-07-07 09:26:36
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aya :
@brooklyn💋
2026-07-06 02:20:11
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Guadalupe Ochoa :
You remind me of @Lili Reinhart 😍
2026-07-08 04:09:58
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joypilled :
How is not shaving your legs not realistic or practical? How is not wearing makeup or adhering to patriarchal standards not practical? Not doing those things are the easiest and most low effort practices you can do if ur a feminist. Sure, shave ur legs, wear the makeup, pander to men, play into gender roles but that cannot exist alongside you being a feminist. You having no willpower to withstand the backlash you may face from not performing femininity doesn’t mean you should come on here and spew this misogynistic take.
2026-07-06 02:07:51
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Isabell 🍒 :
At a certain point we as a society have grown divorced from the fact we are adults who want to have sex
2026-07-06 12:03:17
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Tony :
Of the two, I'd say men are far more guilty of basing their whole personality around being desirable to the opposite sex. We really need to teach young men to de-center women.
The last woman to give a fr@ck what men want died while Betty White was in high-school.
2026-07-06 00:38:07
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bigbbs36 :
Lmao of course you’re coming out with takes like this now that you’re dating some guy. No one’s acting like it’s a crime. People are simply criticizing common cultural phenomena. “Let women be straight! Let women care about being attractive to men!” Like…please be serious. You have the entire world supporting and reinforcing those beliefs. I promise you’ll be okay if some feminists on the internet encourage you to interrogate why you do the things you do.
2026-07-08 19:29:30
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☆Noodle☆ :
My mom has become the way of being upset that I'm not fully gay. I like men and women, yes I've been with more men, but that doesn't change anything at all about how I feel. I can't live her life🤷🏻♀️
2026-07-06 02:22:09
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J Mo :
We should both decenter... and also still desire and present to the other sex.
And just like shaving your legs I will shoulder press over 160 lbs for the ones that like that sort of thing! 🤣 😉
2026-07-06 00:53:05
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