@erikagrundon: how the secure responds internally when there’s a text delay #anxiousattachmentstyle #secureattachment #becomesecure #attachmentstyles

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katherineevv21
Katherinnnnnnnnv :
As an anxious attachment girly… this could never be me 🤣😭
2026-07-17 08:25:59
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sheshotcupid
🐻ྀི 🪽 :
what medication is this
2026-07-27 01:32:55
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__rissaa
__rissaa :
So what dose of lexapro is this 😅
2026-07-20 02:28:22
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caitgabrielle03
Caitlan :
Oh to be this chill and not overthink🤣
2026-07-07 20:04:57
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flowithmillyy
flowithmillyy :
We put too much pressure on texting I swear, it’s exhausting!! Let’s be HUMAN and connect in PERSON
2026-07-06 09:09:06
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lexxxxay
lex :
yeah those are secure assumptions until they’re actually not busy, just ignoring you. anxiety arises when this is repeated and the ignorance is proven
2026-08-06 20:48:27
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msmarypants
Mary 🆘🇺🇸 :
Meanwhile I’m on my 3rd panic attack of the day
2026-07-21 05:43:12
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glo_0611
glo :
what if… george doesn’t respond… and it’s not just a text delay…
2026-08-08 07:15:22
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char.prlx
charlotte :
Yea but it's different when you first started talking they would respond in 3 seconds to all your texts and double text even when they were super busy and now all of a sudden it's always "sorry I fell asleep"
2026-07-11 16:37:56
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crackerzbecrasy
em :
i think it's important to know that you are still a secure person if you feel like you are being played. you should not have to tolerate no communication!
2026-07-08 00:08:20
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ruessclues
Ruebean :
Okay. But imagine if they don’t explain their prolonged absent and continue the conversation as normal. Shhhht gets annoying real quick
2026-08-06 13:13:53
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martibrighenti
marti :
the problem is when they always delay responding to you and everytime you’re together they always have their phone in their hands responding to texts.. there you have to understand you’re not a priority!
2026-08-02 08:47:42
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mondhase448
Simone | UNDER CONSTRUCTION ⏳️ :
i can be secure af, but if i'm not meet where i need to be met (for e.g. it's that i love and feel more seen and loved having little check-ins, even if just a short 'i love you' or gif or whatever), it's disrespectful. and someone who only check in when it's convinient for them isn't having any respect for me at all, so yeah 🙄
2026-07-14 04:16:06
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corim.g
cori :
Oh to be this calm 😭😂
2026-07-08 01:34:49
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sage..theomnivore
🌌💫Sage🛰️🪐 :
But ladies! Let’s remember! 9 hours and then they claim they were just busy is not long. 30+ hours and then they pull up with that “sorry I was sleeping lol”, no they were not.
2026-07-20 13:29:59
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meowwow799
meowwow799 :
I’m so proud of myself for getting to this stage of my life as a former anxious attachment
2026-08-02 20:24:45
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imannaslet
Anna Høgsberg Slet🌙✨ :
4 days now… I think it’s time to give up
2026-08-30 16:20:23
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amarpine1124
Bobsbussy69 :
Where were you two weeks ago when I needed you?!?!
2026-07-21 00:25:28
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anna______as
A :
Secure attachment is secure relationship. I am sorry, he had a time to pee during the day, right, so can have a 30 secs to work out his fingers to inform you he is having a busy day and get back to you once free.
2026-07-13 18:36:07
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poisonivy1220
Ivy Mejia :
I use to be like this but now I’m just irritated. Why are you just now replying to me for the first time at like 7-9 pm and then that’s it. And then it happens again then next day. We rarely get to see each other so just one message a day is really getting to me. It literally takes four days for us to finish one conversation or share one story. Idk what to do.
2026-07-27 09:54:20
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sherisedromero
sherisedromero :
Yeah it’s cool like this until they actually DONT check in
2026-08-08 04:09:04
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livingmybestlife_098765
livingmybestlife_098765 :
I put up with that for a month and then he “lost” his charger one weekend.
2026-07-06 18:43:16
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code_name_nova
Nova :
this but seeing that they've been online several times, so....how busy were they really?
2026-07-08 01:52:24
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kklt60
Kasey🌹 :
So basically I have a mental illness because this kind of scenario always sends me into a spiral. 🤦🏽‍♀️😂 I really wish I could be that chill about it
2026-07-20 21:34:23
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adrivaler422
Adriana 🍒 :
Okay but it was 2 days bc he was “so busy working” yet apparently he had time to message people on hinge.
2026-08-11 23:29:42
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