@thekianaleroux: Growth creates new boundaries for better outcomes friend.

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stephaniesmith671
Stephanie Smith38505 :
Exactly, plus having a whole other person you’re responsible for will also make you more cautious too.
2026-08-28 00:56:19
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jacklynina1
Asian Zing :
I honestly became better once I had kids. I am still married. I spent a lot of my childhood depressed and having a child gave me a purpose. Now I’m at the point where I’m learning how to have bigger dreams. And now the problem is there is not enough time in the day to pursue my passions and keep up with kids, hubby and a household
2026-08-28 02:25:49
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nikkijohnson6
Nikki Johnson :
I'm a single mom...was married to my kids father the whole time. We got divorced and don't regret my decision. I too "did it the right way" snd still ended the same way. Life is life. We grow and learn what we are worth. I am not ever going to be ashamed to be a single mom.❤️
2026-07-06 16:47:52
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ladyfaye424
LadyFaye💋💅🏾 :
what's understood doesn't need to be explained 😘😘
2026-07-06 12:19:35
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no_endo_and_chill
no_endo_and_chill :
Orrrrrrrrrrrr they changed up after the baby and we choose our child and my peace
2026-07-06 15:15:22
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usernotfoundd99_0
usernotfound99 :
You’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
2026-07-06 14:44:49
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kitzmixi
Kitzmixi :
Also… I was married???
2026-07-06 15:22:14
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pineapplezonpitzza
AC Resendiz :
It’s none of his business anyways.
2026-07-06 16:11:19
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torimacminn
Tori MacMinn :
So true. You never think it’s going to happen when you’re in a healthy loving relationship, but it does.
2026-07-06 13:43:34
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thatboyyyjosh
thatboyyyjosh :
Preach you only learn from growth
2026-07-06 11:27:50
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fasheliacherelle
Fashelia Cherelle :
My exact story to the T! I did it "right" still didn't work so ima do this sh*t my way call me Usher! 😂
2026-07-06 14:25:34
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oxbaevii
IAmMatriarch :
My standards at 21 is not the same at 40
2026-07-06 21:21:06
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goddessunique
Goddess She :
I think it’s weird that people feel like you can’t live and learn and you can’t have standards through different parts of your life
2026-07-06 14:29:10
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yeyorevolution
Aly 🦋 | Movement Master :
Right… my strict program is the reason I’m a single mom lol.
2026-07-06 14:33:52
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mona_michelle18
Mona1117 :
Girl AMEN !!!!!
2026-07-06 13:12:48
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jaethebae16
jaethebae1 :
Mind you, increasing your standards & trying to do better is the accountability they swear we don’t take
2026-07-07 00:34:44
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contrarian_sage
Leani Jolē Arceneaux :
The kicker is we were strict; they tricked us. Literally!
2026-07-07 01:30:29
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ewincat0
Ewincat0 :
“You should’ve chose better” can y’all see the future? Cause I can’t and everything was great till it wasn’t
2026-07-07 15:44:21
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a_wrecka
Reckahhhhh :
damnnnn this was so well said sis!!!
2026-07-06 12:33:58
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biig_rubii
ZaDria :
I was married for 10 years. No one gets married with the intention of getting divorced, but my divorce was the best thing for me and my kids. My program now is overly strict
2026-07-06 22:20:45
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niondramt
Niondra :
Clearly we run a strict program after traumatic experiences.
2026-07-06 14:07:17
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kingmuda32
Jamaal Jackson :
Having a child changes the program ! Keep grinding mama
2026-07-06 16:12:59
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jamescia_
Mesha ✨ :
I was married 5 yrs before I got pregnant and divorced with a newborn. I’m scared to date and remarry and the same thing happen lol I know I’ll be running a super strict program! Been single 4 years
2026-07-06 15:43:00
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thekianaleroux
thekianaleroux :
And when I say on paper, I’m not talking about money I’m talking about security, maturity, having their own, etc.
2026-07-06 12:44:42
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