Exactly, plus having a whole other person you’re responsible for will also make you more cautious too.
2026-08-28 00:56:19
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Asian Zing :
I honestly became better once I had kids. I am still married. I spent a lot of my childhood depressed and having a child gave me a purpose. Now I’m at the point where I’m learning how to have bigger dreams. And now the problem is there is not enough time in the day to pursue my passions and keep up with kids, hubby and a household
2026-08-28 02:25:49
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Nikki Johnson :
I'm a single mom...was married to my kids father the whole time. We got divorced and don't regret my decision. I too "did it the right way" snd still ended the same way. Life is life. We grow and learn what we are worth. I am not ever going to be ashamed to be a single mom.❤️
2026-07-06 16:47:52
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LadyFaye💋💅🏾 :
what's understood doesn't need to be explained 😘😘
2026-07-06 12:19:35
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no_endo_and_chill :
Orrrrrrrrrrrr they changed up after the baby and we choose our child and my peace
2026-07-06 15:15:22
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usernotfound99 :
You’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
2026-07-06 14:44:49
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Kitzmixi :
Also… I was married???
2026-07-06 15:22:14
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AC Resendiz :
It’s none of his business anyways.
2026-07-06 16:11:19
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Tori MacMinn :
So true. You never think it’s going to happen when you’re in a healthy loving relationship, but it does.
2026-07-06 13:43:34
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thatboyyyjosh :
Preach you only learn from growth
2026-07-06 11:27:50
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Fashelia Cherelle :
My exact story to the T! I did it "right" still didn't work so ima do this sh*t my way call me Usher! 😂
2026-07-06 14:25:34
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IAmMatriarch :
My standards at 21 is not the same at 40
2026-07-06 21:21:06
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Goddess She :
I think it’s weird that people feel like you can’t live and learn and you can’t have standards through different parts of your life
2026-07-06 14:29:10
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Aly 🦋 | Movement Master :
Right… my strict program is the reason I’m a single mom lol.
2026-07-06 14:33:52
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Mona1117 :
Girl AMEN !!!!!
2026-07-06 13:12:48
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jaethebae1 :
Mind you, increasing your standards & trying to do better is the accountability they swear we don’t take
2026-07-07 00:34:44
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Leani Jolē Arceneaux :
The kicker is we were strict; they tricked us. Literally!
2026-07-07 01:30:29
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Ewincat0 :
“You should’ve chose better” can y’all see the future? Cause I can’t and everything was great till it wasn’t
2026-07-07 15:44:21
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Reckahhhhh :
damnnnn this was so well said sis!!!
2026-07-06 12:33:58
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ZaDria :
I was married for 10 years. No one gets married with the intention of getting divorced, but my divorce was the best thing for me and my kids. My program now is overly strict
2026-07-06 22:20:45
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Niondra :
Clearly we run a strict program after traumatic experiences.
2026-07-06 14:07:17
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Jamaal Jackson :
Having a child changes the program ! Keep grinding mama
2026-07-06 16:12:59
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Mesha ✨ :
I was married 5 yrs before I got pregnant and divorced with a newborn. I’m scared to date and remarry and the same thing happen lol I know I’ll be running a super strict program! Been single 4 years
2026-07-06 15:43:00
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thekianaleroux :
And when I say on paper, I’m not talking about money I’m talking about security, maturity, having their own, etc.
2026-07-06 12:44:42
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