@somerandombabe: Modern arrangements

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kokoro0820
Kokoro :
thats so weird
2026-07-06 15:44:33
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laura272663627633
Laura2726636276336 :
my parents can't even pick out a Christmas gift I like
2026-08-01 21:43:52
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panda.love033
Panda Love :
This makes life so much easier. I’m jealous of people who get this much help, because finding someone is difficult
2026-07-07 01:23:25
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momlifelive
LouAnn Holzer :
My mother in law hooked us up. I babysat her kids and she thought we were a good match and had her son ask me on a date.
2026-07-07 15:08:20
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fthnotfoundd
fthnotfoundd :
this sounds great
2026-07-07 04:18:26
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sillyplantgirl
Plant friend :
Did u get to be okay with this process or if you didn't want to could u just not
2026-07-21 02:41:28
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not_penguin124
not_Penguin124 :
Ya. Thats odd
2026-07-07 15:26:46
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billie.k.mccarty
Billie K McCarty :
Are you hawking a reality show?
2026-07-07 14:31:59
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budgetcraftdiymom
budgetcraftdiymom :
if you have a good relationship with your parents I can see this being an option. I would have never been happy with anyone my parents would have wanted 😂
2026-07-07 19:00:39
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walterinvt
Walter in Vermont :
Well done. My wife and i met on OkCupid. She waved. The rest followed. I then went to visit her family for a day, ate together and she and I actually met in person for the first time. (We had video called including with parents and texted lots.) I then asked her father (and mother) for permission to date. Three weeks later I asked for permission to engage (Kagon). My wife and I are both very direct and intentional so we talked about each step a lot before. We married two months later. Who you marry is the most important decision you will make in life. There are good men and women out there. Make yourself be one and then find your one. A good book I recommend reading together when you think you have found ‘The One’: “101 Questions to Ask Before you Get Engaged”. Basically pre-marital counseling. My wife and I read this together as we got to know each other before we ever met in person. 😊 Make intentional love.
2026-07-06 22:01:08
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ladyviolette94
Lady Violette :
I wish I had people who loved me enough to set me up, my picker is broken 🙈
2026-07-07 17:42:44
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loridiane99
Lori Diane :
curious to know if there are things you need to run by or get permission from the parents post marriage
2026-07-07 16:25:25
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livinginlife123
livinginlife123 :
That’s not arranged marriage technically. That’s just being wise and selective about who marries your child. Arranged marriages the child has no choice.
2026-07-06 17:46:26
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travelcat237
TravelCat :
That is not such a bad idea really.
2026-07-06 15:59:25
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anntonisspindlyspiderbod
Anntoni Spindle :
Okay —-but then you only see them on their best behavior with their family around. You need to see how he treats restaurant staff and how he can be genuinely thoughtful on a date and considerate of your interests. Also you’re left wondering is he respecting your boundaries because his family is nearby or is he respecting your boundaries because he knows he should. It also removes a significant amount of choice from your hands. What your parents want might not be what you want in a partner
2026-07-06 22:46:00
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dago.ji
dago.ji :
I don’t mind this except for the dad’s permission part. My mom I could see because she grew me. But letting a man, even my dad, control my body/life is a huge no for me. Marriage and childbirth should be the provenance of the older women in the community. And for people with abusive parents this would be a nightmare.
2026-07-07 12:58:19
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tristyny711
Tristyn :
its legit just your family setting you up on a blind date. not weird at all.
2026-07-07 01:10:02
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thatmamajanie
Janie Stephens :
Ick
2026-07-06 21:57:50
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cheeseburgersonahorse
cheeseburgersonahorse :
I guess be glad you didn’t end up like Anna Duggar, Kendra Duggar, Katie Smith, Esther Shrader or Heidi Rodrigues who all did this system.
2026-08-31 22:59:51
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thesteadathomemom
Thesteadathomemom :
I’m not entirely against it. I think parents should be helping in arranging potential spouses for their child.
2026-07-08 02:33:47
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ems_ityeh
A :
I had a guy his family was like this but my mom was abusive and locked me up even more i didn’t know what was happening at the time until he moved. But that experience helped me with my kids today and is exactly how I’d want my kids to feel confident to date properly within age rages.
2026-07-08 16:44:06
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morgan_mcmillan
morgan_202s :
😁😁😁
2026-07-06 18:01:08
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ultrette
🕚ictoria :
Oh it’s a religious cult
2026-07-07 00:54:49
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feminismispower
feminismispower :
This is great actually this is how arabs do arranged marriages as well it works pretty well and the guys are not trying to take advantage of women they actually have to put in the work.
2026-07-06 18:09:47
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