im not a borderline but i get so mad abt "calm down" because i got told that in autistic meltdown and it made me worse to the point i broke something
2026-07-15 02:35:43
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Puringui🇵🇷 :
"I feel like im stepping on eggshells" makes me absolutely lose my mind
2026-07-08 19:48:45
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Mr Dopehead :
"I'm sorry you feel that way" is just disrespectful, no matter who you say it to
2026-07-07 08:04:32
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Candy :
“what’s your problem??!” everytime im crying or appear moody…
2026-07-07 18:37:06
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𐕣 𝘝𝘐𝘗𝘌𝘙 :
if i get angry my family gets frustrated 🙄
2026-07-06 16:33:53
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RatPack13 :
"I think your just seeing in black and white right now and need to stop that" LIKE I COULD?!!
2026-07-14 12:51:52
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anna :
the “you’re being dramatic” gets me badddd
2026-07-06 18:51:08
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SocialBEffects :
What happened. We just had a nice day! 💯
2026-07-07 00:41:09
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Lyss :
Is are you splitting to similar to “why are you mad. Or are you mad” just because I’m not smiling and giggidy. now I’m mad.
2026-07-06 20:44:47
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Callie Nicole Faye Holbert :
I could feel you getting agitated in the video when you were talking about someone telling you to calm down and I can totally relate
2026-07-06 18:35:02
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susumu :
my bf always says "im sorry you feel that way" to me and i tell him not to and he says he doesnt know what else to say and i dont know what to tell him either. i told him it feels like hes apologizing for the consequences and not for the cause aka his actions but he still does it, idk what to do it bothers me so much
2026-07-08 10:52:22
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🖤Kitty🖤 :
i have bpd too. and i agree with all of this. and youre very well spoken.
2026-07-06 21:42:37
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bojim_mateo :
i just texted her these both of these things
2026-07-06 16:24:57
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phatcooter :
“im sorry you feel that way” i-
2026-07-07 16:37:13
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molly :
I rarely split on people, it mostly happens with romantic partners like thats never really happened with others and if it did it was for like a second and I was fine and no one knew. I sometimes feel like people use the “you’re splitting” to discredit what you’re trying to address with them and that’s the quickest way for me to gtf away from someone 😭
2026-07-06 19:15:17
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_queefartqueen :
Stop cause my boyfriend has said all of these and I literally had to hold everything back pls😭😭😭
2026-07-07 04:31:56
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sarah🕷️ :
i just got triggered
2026-07-06 19:41:59
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ashhh🦇🌙 :
my mom literally said to me “u can’t keep running from life”
2026-07-07 15:22:36
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RAGE :
I always tell my partner “oh you don’t like me? at least you can leave”
2026-07-07 22:01:30
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Katie & Family🧑🧒🧒 :
You’re helping me realize what causes my splits
2026-07-07 13:10:12
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KatyRae :
I feel so seen!!! ☺️
2026-07-07 07:28:02
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valentine :
instead of “calm down” rephrasing it as “baby i can see that you’re getting really overwhelmed. let’s sit down and try to ground ourselves before continuing. we don’t wanna say things we don’t mean” works perfectly too.
2026-07-07 19:58:07
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Serenedy💙 :
My family makes me feel like my emotions are just normal and everyone has them and to just not get so upset or hurt over everything like don’t you think I TRY THAT😭
2026-07-10 03:15:18
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Makayleigh 😘🫶🏼 :
REPOSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT🥰👏👏
2026-07-11 09:49:44
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@shestheblondeone :
If I’m emotional and crying and they tell me “let it all out” I’m shutting down straight away and no other tear is Guna fall
2026-07-07 05:57:31
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