@alexfullofgrace: In 10 years id love to be making a video saying i was wrong but i just dont think that will happen. Also, Important to mention that this was NOT a heteronormative relationship so hostile comments from that perspective will be removed. Truly pls keep me out of your straight culture thanks. #grief #divorce #divorced #heartbreak #redflags
My ex husband was the nicest man I had ever met until he wasn’t.
2026-07-07 09:32:29
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way :
Captain Picard has a great quote in TNG “"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness; that is life."
2026-07-06 17:58:47
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appalachiangothglitter :
he literally hugged me, kissed me, and told me he loved me before he ghosted me. like, right before.
2026-07-07 15:01:48
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Rebecca Sullivan369 :
My ex husband said he's not sure he ever loved me, he just married me because it seemed like the next thing to do. You can plan to spend your life with someone and never really know them
2026-07-07 00:02:08
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JENA :
Such an insensitive thing to ask !
2026-07-06 23:05:27
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em_sneddon :
I also can’t help but feel it’s because they want confirmation that they’re more attuned and therefore would spot it… you didn’t, but they could… it’s so exhausting living most people’s worst nightmare 🤡
2026-07-06 14:48:37
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g 🖤 ghoul girl :
This reminds me of how people asked me “why” my mom had cancer. There wasn’t a “why.” She didn’t smoke, she didn’t have any substance use problems, she was healthy and took care of herself. People always want a why but the truth is, in life, we will experience suffering in ways we can’t quite prevent or predict. We can only seek to get through. 🖤
2026-07-06 17:28:30
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meghaunprescott :
Okay i have been married 9 years and the other day i made an assumption about what my husband was thinking and when i said something about it he told me what he was actually thinking and it was SO FAR from what i thought. And it was a silly non-important thing but it just made me think about how so often people’s outward behavior sometimes IN NO WAY reveals their inner thoughts.
2026-07-06 20:55:17
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Everythingislove :
it’s easier to disappear. He probably didn’t want you to convince him to stay & he didn’t want to see you hurt. So he disappeared
2026-07-06 23:29:39
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pattieso :
I blamed myself for so long because there were no red flags
2026-07-06 14:45:13
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Lysa Shimkus :
I was married to a man who was emotionally gone. It’s heartbreaking to be loved one day & completely abandoned the next. I left after 8 total years.
2026-07-06 21:37:42
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Laura levels up :
I just started to assume that the “unthinkable” could happen at any time and enjoy the time you do have together (this goes for any relationship)
2026-07-08 17:02:40
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SourceHerRest | Spoiled in CLT :
Idk why folks can’t accept the obvious. He sucks. Period. End of story.
2026-07-06 22:58:49
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There is no x in espresso :
People change
2026-07-09 01:04:43
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teebactually :
There really are cases where there just aren’t flags. Some of them are *really* good. My friend’s husband was constantly telling her he loved her, writing her love notes, planning vacations for them, she was always gushing about him, he was helpful with the kids and around the house and we enjoyed their company a lot. He woke up on a weekday, told her he wanted a divorce and he left her. And that was it. He just left.
2026-07-08 14:27:42
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Isvari Maranwe :
This is also freeing. Don't spend all day looking for signs. Enjoy what you can while it lasts, hopefully forever.
2026-07-08 21:45:35
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Mayamivt :
I am a marriage therapist, married for 18 years, and even I might been left suddenly one day without warning. We are never 100% sure. The vast array of how someone might change - through experience, through tragedy, through trauma, through simply growing differently - is simply not something you can predict. Only things to do are to keep talking and keep co-creating life, and asking the deeper questions of one another.
2026-07-07 19:34:32
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Mellie Acts Up :
What no one can understand about my grief is that I was the HAPPIEST, most fulfilled, most successful I had ever been in my life when my husband walked out for his affair partner. I cannot reconcile that, it makes ANY new happiness I start to find feel fake, feel dangerous, feel like I'm living a fraud. Because if my happiest days were just a precursor to everything getting ripped away & destroyed, then what's the point of ever feeling happy & successful & confident again? It's pure hell living like this, but there doesn't seem to be an alternative.
2026-07-08 11:28:44
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BlackHeartedLady :
Sometimes they fake their entire personality. My ex did. He literally morphed in front of my eyes one day. Even his family was baffled. He snapped.
2026-07-07 00:52:21
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Hannah :
my first question is how did you find out he wasn't dead.
2026-07-07 11:37:39
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Cocosworld1111 :
Being discarded is worst than being broken up with.
2026-07-09 00:12:08
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