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samsiahamni :
harap ibu bapa jangan anggap anak sebagai investment, kesian anak
2026-07-06 23:03:36
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Sahabat Anda :
ni antara masalah anak muda, semua nak cepat, selera plak besar, contoh nak cepat selesa, pasang aircond, nak cepat naik gaji, nak cepat2 sgt sampai tak bawa bekal, bangun awal. boleh je masak bekal simple2, nk cepat2 ayah berhenti tanya pasal kerja dan berhenti sebut kerja yg kau tak suka..layankan je perbualan sembang ngn ayah tu..semua ayah bangga tentang pencapaian anak2 mereka.😁..kejayaan dan keselesaan perlukan pengorbananan serta masa..apapun all the best, selamat melayari kehidupan yg mencabar.💪
2026-07-07 00:08:09
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Zai :
dont please your parent anymore. thats study time. real world you need to find your own way. They will be proud of you
2026-07-07 00:55:59
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Emer Noxen :
Dik abang nak nasihat. One important thing I would like to highlight is that every career requires strong soft skills, especially resilience. Resilience is something that must be cultivated from within. Yes, many fresh graduates often feel overwhelmed by demanding workloads, long working hours, limited personal time, and high levels of commitment. However, patience and perseverance are essential during the early stages of your career. As you continue to learn, adapt, and develop your professional skills, these challenges will become more manageable. InsyaAllah, what feels difficult today will eventually become part of your routine, even if your mental strength is still being tested at this stage. Over time, you will progress through the ranks as you gain experience, seniority, and leadership skills. After all, in the corporate world, continuous learning never stops. Most organizations provide in-house training and development opportunities to help employees grow. I was once in the same position as many of you are today. Sixteen years ago, when I started my career as a Jr. Exec. in a bank, I struggled with the pressure and expectations from my manager, who demanded the highest quality of work. At that time, I felt that I was already giving my very best, yet it still seemed insufficient. What I did not realize then was that producing high-quality work requires intense focus, dedication, effort, and experience. As the years passed, those skills gradually became second nature. What once felt difficult eventually became routine. That is the value of experience..it cannot be gained instantly, nor can it be replaced easily. It is earned through perseverance, sacrifice, continuous learning, and resilience.
2026-07-07 02:11:31
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m.imad047 :
Macam ni la sis. I pun pernah rasai apa yang u rasa. Untuk hati u kekal tenang n happy untuk grow your career, jangan ikutkan sangat semua kehendak mak ayah kita ni. Nakkan kita kerja kat company besar ada nama, ada jawatan tinggi, pastu minta kita bayar itu ini kat rumah hingga kita yang terbeban. Bukan i nak maksudkan jangan berbakti kepada mak ayah. Berbakti laaa tpi ikut kemampuan kita jangan smpi kita yang terbeban. Manage your financial well! Follow financial rules 50/30/20. Jangan bagi tahu gaji awak dpt berapa kat family. Setiap saving yang awak buat jangan bagi tahu family awak. Awak bayar je mana2 komitmen yg awak rasa nak bayar atau mampu bayar. Kalau parents yang jenis sikit2 minta cakap je tak ada duit simple. Tak jadi anak derhaka pun kalau tak bayar. In your situation, u cakap ayah awak buat grab. Itu responsibility dia as lelaki/suami untuk cari nafkah untuk sara anak bini di rumah. U as anak tak perlu pun u bayar semua utilities sampai 500-600. Kalau i, i letak je limit i 50-100/month. Kalau family nk bising2 buat tak tahu je. Kalau eletrik mahal sbb aircond. Suruh stop guna aircond. I have my policy in my life. Kadang bukan gaji yang company bagi tak cukup tp sbb kita yang salah manage our financial. Biarlah kita ukur baju kita sendiri.
2026-07-06 21:50:42
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J@ck :
Anak2 bukan investment untuk cover masa tua.
2026-07-07 03:06:32
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Bintang Purnama :
She is just sharing. not complaining. and she doesn't need to explain to anybody. Whatever decision she made, she's the one going to face the consequences and she is ready for that. pilihan betul atau salah biar dia yg decide. After all, she can always go back to the company as she mentioned.
2026-07-07 04:51:52
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shashacassano :
“katakan aku tak bayar, benda tu tak akan dibayar, bila aku tak bayar, benda tu akan accumulate banyak2, siapa lagi nak bayar” this is what i am going through right now😭🥲
2026-07-07 01:23:45
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Noob DotA Player :
Isunya adalah family commitment. Sedihnya. Kena tanggung bayar kereta, rumah, elektrik.
2026-07-06 22:06:33
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Lee Nazreen :
the reality is , in real life we need to work on something that pays the bill ain't something that made us proud of .
2026-07-07 04:18:19
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nazifahoj :
1.bil utiliti family 2.expectation parents 3.gaji tak berbaloi Semoga dipermudahkan urusan dik. Explore selagi masih muda dan belum berkahwin. 🥰
2026-07-07 00:31:54
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≽^•⩊•^≼ :
Once kita bayar, tiba2 jdi tanggungjawab kita untuk bayar
2026-07-07 00:59:34
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KSMOKH :
Tlg bayar bill tu bagus, tapi bukan semua dik. Set a limit, dan Jgn sesekali bgtau gaji kita berapa..
2026-07-06 23:27:21
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cestlavieenrose :
Tak nak komen apa2 dik, just rant out je. Actually dia bukan nak kita faham, adik cuma meluahkan kan. Akak dengar.
2026-07-07 05:18:00
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nap.jua :
tolong simpan duit utk Diri sendiri. jgn habiskan gaji byr segala komitmen keluarga. jgn kongsi berapa angka gaji or saving dgn sesiapa krn akn ada org lain yg rancang kewangan kau
2026-07-07 00:19:00
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amon meiz :
Solution kepada masalah akak bukan lebih gaji, tapi pindah tempat tinggal. Find your own place. U will earn your own peace. Dan jangan risau "bazir degree". Setiap ilmu kita belajar, ada faedahnya, walaupun kerja luar bidang. Tidak pernah ada ilmu yang membazir
2026-07-07 00:19:00
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Muhamad Fahmi :
Well welcome to the world GEN (Z)
2026-07-07 07:44:36
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Ascent Handmade Soap :
I just want to tell you that you're amazing. Recording yourself and saying all these things isn't easy. I hope everything goes smoothly for you.
2026-07-07 01:59:52
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niconis :
Saving for deposit, cari bilik sewa nearby tempat kerja. Set limit tolong bayar utilities/ any keperluan rumah. If siblings yg lain ada dan sudah kerja, discuss. Must to be fair contribute together. How to solve, is communication. Cakap je apa yg perlu dalam rumah bagi mereka sedar situasi yg berlaku, jangan pendam. But talk with nice way lah . All the best for your own journey. Don’t give up.
2026-07-06 22:35:00
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Hikers :
Dia mcm ni dik.. nak gaji besar mmg u kena lompat frm one company to another company like u work 2 years at least then lompat to another company based on wht u r doing for a better post and better salary and u kena cari yg ada bonus every year.. company yg offer bonus every year and increment every year without fail..these will extremly help you..im talking based frm my experience..as a parent and soon to be a nanny.. I wud advise talk to ur parents heart to heart too …kekdg diaorg mungkin tak tahu n x paham ur stress..talk to them about mthly allowance tht u can only afford to give them.. they cannot expect u to tolong them too much sb u pun kena kumpul duit for yourself to enjoy ur own salary.. your parents shud motivate you ..takut nnt u break down.. take care..
2026-07-07 01:55:10
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Hailry :
tarik nafas dalam2. get a coffee or drink that can comfort. lepastu stay out from sosmed kejap. apa pandangan orang lain terhadap kita tak penting, yang penting our life must be happy ☺️☺️☺️
2026-07-06 15:02:20
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Anna_adnan :
hmmm...akak faham ur situation. cuma beza kita, akak jenis rebel. 1st thing i would do, move out from my parent house 😅. 2nd, limit my parents allowance. 3rd, resign till i get the job that satisfy me. 4th, cari kerja yg dekat dgn tempat tinggal.
2026-07-07 00:34:02
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vitamin E dan B :
sy degree edu. time practicum sy dah x minat jd guru. jadi sy masuk logistics. company sama, kerja growth sbb being promoted, starting 1.8k - 8.6k. Dah ada rumah sendiri, car, moto. Tiap kali raya, org tnya keje apa sy kata keje kilang, biasa2 je. Fam sy x kisah wlupun sy tau mak sdih sbb mmg dia teringin anak dia keje cgu. end up, bkn kerja, as long gaji tinggi & bg benefit terutama fam sendiri, u hapy, its ok.
2026-07-06 23:11:11
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khairiel- :
Hi, im 26yo & also sulung. idk your parents situation & house income. I just want to share my thought, stop being the sulung to pay all the bill. Assuming your salary still below 4k, helping them pay small bill is enough. Also kita still in our 20s. Make some space for yourself. Build your savings yaa instead of being the one who pay everything with alasan nak ringankan beban family or whatsoever. Again, im just sharing my thought on everything you said in this video. Goodluck 🙌🏻
2026-07-07 02:24:46
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awaninaent :
Dik, kau berjalan pergi mana ni jauh benor..
2026-07-07 00:09:38
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