@super_solo_mon: I’m back. Had foot surgery. #soloasd #autism #crisis #surgery

K.AUSTER :

I think you have a tongue tie

Darcy :

Odd video from you??

sbach22 :

You got this. Pre-menopause stinks. Maybe you’re going through that I wish you all the best dear you’re such a sweet person.

ToniaD73! :

Welcome to perimenopause!

ShinySpice :

Yep perimenopause and stress would be my guess. Sending you hugs.

Brandy :

So we autism parents are under immense amounts of stress and most of us don’t get to sleep the best either. Plus you’re likely to be starting perimenopause. I’m in the same boat girlfriend! I’ve gained weight. I feel bloated. I’m tired. I don’t have any suggestions to help you, but you’re not alone!

Melissa SLP :

We don’t talk enough about how the emotional stress and over stimulation parents of Autistic children experience, impacts their physical health too. Aside from the already impacted mental health. I see you, Abby and I’m sorry.🙏

Aikea_guinea_pig :

I haven’t been able to cook for about seven years now for this reason. It’s almost like my son thinks I’m an extension of him and doesn’t want me to put myself in danger. Our workaround is that dad cooks dinner and I can microwave or air fry food as long as I don’t use the stove. I also can’t clean the kitchen either mind you. But I can in short spurts around him or fully clean while he’s asleep 🤷🏽‍♀️

Zulekha Williams :

Mama take care of yourself and your self care. We love you. I also just turned 43 this month so I feel you! Maddox does the same SIB it’s hard. 😔

anoniempje12 :

maybe strange question but with a good intension. but can you give something in his hands before someone leaves? or let him know by picture what somebody is going to do? or with an object? maybe i am completely wrong ...

kimberleeyoung127 :

we love you girl...please take care of your mental health...9-8-8

Sarah :

You look so gorgeous though oh my gosh

MelissaL99 :

Happened to me! Nutritionist helped. Momma - you’re awesome. You got this.

Christiene Brown348 :

Girl. You do the best you can with your son. Unexpected the same issues with my body. I started HRT and I am a new person! Look into it!

Savvykins :

Hey, was just saying this yesterday. I gained 30 pounds extremely fast, now I’m trying to lose it. Same thing with the Dad leaving. I told people yesterday that I have aged a decade overnight. I am also 43. However, let me be an encouragement. It does get better. Today was the first day, that my husband left and my daughter did not have a meltdown.They go through phases, and you look for solutions. You’re doing an amazing job.

AshleyNicole :

its just life hun. we are all going through something, we all have each other's backs. xo

nanna bear of 12 :

Hang in there I’m 40 years into caring 3 pwd

Isabella :

you act happy, but I see sadness in your face..even when your smiling, autism is no joke..I live it also.. Wishing you the very best..

happycat :

You are cute. Autism is hard

WoodenletterX :

Ariana✌ :

you need to get you some HRT. I started perimenopause at 35, thought I was losing my mind while also trying to care for my 2 autistic boys. hang in there mama

Hailey King 🦆 :

Keep on keeping on mama you got it!

Isaac Journey :

Sending big hugs

Cassi_Nova :

Take care of yourself!

HBMarie85 :

sending you the biggest hugs mama. you still look stunning. I'm sorry things are extra challenging right now.